Meaning, they've known you since you were overweight and never hit on you or asked you out. However, now that you are slim they are soooooo into you and are forever flirting with you. This is not about me, I am just really curious about what people think about it.
2006-12-13 05:43:59 · 33 answers · asked by Libra73117 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. I would be always afraid of a little weight gain just in case. Why live like that? If they were that shallow before they are still that shallow. I don't think it's a good idea at all. Why live being judged all the time?
2006-12-13 05:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
How often do you flirt with or try to get the attention of fat guys? How often does anyone you know do that?
There's nothing wrong with physical attraction...humans are visual creatures...it's expected that people who didn't show interest when one was heavy, may do so when the weight is lost...it's a fact that most people DO look better when they are not fat...
Depending on the person who was now showing interest, would depend on if I'd date him or not...but I wouldn't make a blanket statement of saying no, don't ever date someone that didn't show you attention until you were slender...that's just silly...
2006-12-13 05:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it's fine. After all, what are some (if not the main) reasons you decided to lose weight?
Anyway, just because someone wasn't into when you were overweight doesn't mean they aren't a good candidate. After all, looks play a significant factor in relationships. You should be physically attracted to each other, after all. This person probably never got a chance to even judge you on your personality.
If he/she knew you and treated you like crap and has since changed, that might be a different story.
2006-12-13 05:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by CPT Jack 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
honestly, being around my friends, it seems to be all about sex, boys often think that when a girl is skinny she has better parts then a girl that is bigger, I've learned by personal exsperiance that that really doesn't matter and you should look for the mind not the body, bigger girls are better. but honestly guys always think of the present not the future. hopefully if you find a guy you like, try and stay skinny because thats probably what they are after not your mind.
Actually what I have been told was to always go for the big girls
they give you warmth in the winter and shade in the summer, they give you all you want and if they run away who cares.
thats what I've been tought but honestly I don't go by it I just look for the girl with the right mind
2006-12-13 05:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were mean to you when you were overweight then no. If they were a good friend then it is ok. You can't blame someone for what they find attractive only the way they treat the ones the dont find attractive
2006-12-13 05:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by keith s 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if he would not ask you out when you were heavy then you dont need him now. You are the same person inside that you were then. And if the outside was not appealing to him then he would have been embarassed by being seen with you dont go out with him now.
And to the person who answered who wants to do a "fatty" why would any one want to roll and "DO" a skelton. Skin and bones. Yuck.
2006-12-13 05:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by sassylyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY unless you dont mind a relationship based only on physical attraction but that person will leave asa soon as its gone or dwindles because there's always a better looking person out there. there's a aSLIM chance you can build on the relationship by finding out you had other things in common.
2006-12-13 05:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by so delicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it now you have the time to get to know each other stop thinking about the past and be positive live in the now because yesterday cant help today! may-be he might be a really great guy you'll never know if you keep acting this way!
2006-12-13 05:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by kim806 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really like it. . .it sounds like the flirter is too much into looks. However, it COULD be that the person that lost all the weight is acting really confident and self-assured now, which is very attractive, and THAT'S why they're flirting--so that would be cool. I guess it just depends on the situation.
2006-12-13 05:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Casey 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
iv gotten slimmer lately and have started to get attention.Its ok if the person was still nice to you before. Id say no if the person was being mean and only stopped when you got good looking
2006-12-13 05:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by doomkitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋