what should I do about a phone relationship?

Question

I have been talking to a guy I met on line for like 3 months and he is a couple states away and at first I said no problem cause he was to move back shortly. Well He will not be back for another couple months. And dispite that fact that I have never meet this guy we really get along great so what do I do

Answer 1

You stick with it,I have been e-mailing sthis woman for 5 months and never met yet but we get along great too. I plan on sticking with it. I hope it works out for you.

Answer 2

You must be very young.
In the grand scheme of things a couple of months is not very long at all. It sounds like you are looking for an excuse to see someone else, since it will be soooooooooooo long before he gets there.

Here is a bit of advice you didn't ask for...
When you finally get to meet this guy TAKE SOMEONE WITH YOU and MEET IN A PUBLIC PLACE. Don't let your emotions make you vulnerable. There are a lot of men who prey on lonely girls/women online getting their hopes up. BE CAREFUL!

Answer 3

You should keep talking to him, communication is the essence of a relationship. There's really no harm in waiting but you should not put all your eggs in one basket, in other words don't put 100% towards this. If you truly think its worth the wait, then you should wait. I've been in a similar situation, and think about this he lived like 15 minutes away from me. But I waited 2 months to see him, now we see each other not often but enough to maintain a great relationship. good luck!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

see i know someone who had a phone relationship for 8 months..(california-arizona). They fell in love instantly..and talked everynight, for hours and hours...during the day they texted..it was like a real relationship. Finally when the boy moved closer to the girl (since he was 18 and graduated) they were still in love when he moved out there...so i think that keeping the relationship going is a good idea..you never know...and if its not meant to happen, then dont force it to you know what i mean?

(oh and make sure that you deff know hes for real)

Answer 5

Have him come visit you, or you go visit him. If you hit it off in person, that is something real.

A relationship based on a relationship just over the phone won't work, and it won't last.

Just make sure he's not a stalker, freak, serial-killer before you decide to meet him in person.

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Answer 6

slow down, some psycho's can wait a year before they slice your neck. meet people you can see,touch, stop that! I bet he knows everything about you. turn the beat around tell him that you're about to take advantage of a opportunity of a life time; job opportunity to move to another state(not by him) and that you're going to take it. tell him that you will be moving in one month; he may ask to see you before you move don't! then you will know that he's setting you up! stop being so vulnerable.

Answer 7

What do you want to do? That's totally up to you...if you are still communicating when he moves back, then you can decide if you want to meet and get to know one another or not...

Do what works for you...

Answer 8

Wait until he gets back and see how it goes. But be prepared - things aren't as they seem online. It's easy to disguise who you are behind the mask of the internet. Caution is the key - even if you think you know him....proceed with caution.

Answer 9

well let me tell u that if that guy really want u or even lov u he will be back soon but if don't u know the answer. i really don't recomend that kind of relationships but sometimes is good to know that someone is interested in u

Answer 10

To decide what to do, I think you have to meet the guy in person first.