i have a g/f who cheated on me about this time last year. she wanted to try and work things out with me and so i flew her up to where i relocated outside of pittsburgh. well she wouldnt touch me, hug me, nothing physical etc. all of the sudden she walked in and said she was leaving to go back to southern cal into the arms of the guy she was seeing behind my back. well to make a long story short this is now the FOURTH time she has been here in one year. (im stupid - i know) however, she has been here for 3 months now, and still wont be physical, or even affectionate with me at all. only once has she wanted to have sex, & mind you this comes from a woman who wanted it EVERY night before she hooked up with this guy. we have been dating since 2001, and now that i seem to have a lot more woman friends, and they start to like me b/c i dont drink and try to screw them, they take interest in me. so do i just tell my g/f to buzz off and thanks for nothing, or keep trying to change her ways.
2006-12-13 05:31:05 · 27 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to buzz of and thanks for nothing and hook up with some of the women who ARE interested in you.
2006-12-13 05:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HER GO! GOOD RIDDENCE! You sound like a decent guy and they are hard to find. Her type come a dime a dozen sweetheart! What ever you had with her is obviously gone now and you deserve to be happy with a real woman. Do not let her cheating ways decieve you any longer. She is playing games with you. Let her go and take back control over your life. Do not waste your time trying to change someone else for this is not going to happen. It takes too much energy and in the end you will gain nothing but more heartache! Let her go now!
2006-12-13 13:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. First of all you shouldn't have to deal with a cheater. There are too many people in the world for you to compromise your standards by putting up with a cheater. If she is living with you and wont even be affectionate with you then ask yourself why is she there? Thats not a girlfriend, you just have a female roomate. Who i'm guessing isn't paying rent. *lol* You seem like a guy whos got a good head on his shoulders- don't let this female mess up your head.
2006-12-13 13:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by nappyhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her! Hell you should do it like really rudely just come home pack her stuff if she asks what your doing ignore than literally throw her stuff and her out the door. You CAN do better and will do better. But make sure the next time you date someone be a little more domint guys are supposed to be domint in the relationship. If you do that im sure you can have a new nice healthy relationship in no time.
2006-12-13 13:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by dracomalfoy_wants_harrypotter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Apparently to her, you're just a security blanket. I am telling you, you need to get rid of her. She obviously doesn't love you because she won't have anything to do with you intimately. What kind of relationship is that anyway? There are many more women out there that have all the love to give, not just every couple of months. Good Luck.
2006-12-13 13:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up brother, can't you see that your the rebound! After moving that much, does she even hold a job. Check this out...She is doing this because she knows that you want it to work and won't tell here no when she shows up on your door step. Surprise, she's in your house, aint given you none, aint paying any bills I assume, get her outta there chief! It's a classic tale, you can't change people, only convicts b/c they don't wanna go back to jail!
2006-12-13 13:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by The Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too damn nice man! Your woman has been piling up dog poo up your head and you still managed to put up with her all these years. Nice guys finish last and are always taken advantage of. Kick her to the curb and tell her "STRIKE 3!!! YOU'RE OUTTA HERE B I T C H!!!" Go find yourself another woman that deserves your love and attention. Maybe try one of those women friends you have.
2006-12-13 13:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by Trixter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a confused woman,trying to use you as a buffer when the other guy is unavailable or when she has a war with the guy.wake up,you just said lots of girls find you nice,so why waste your time with a girl who is just plainly not into you!!!give yourself a break,stay away from her,cos if you keep taking her back,she will continously do it over and over again.find yourself someone who will give back the love you have and willing to give,don't settle for handouts,get what you deserve in return....
2006-12-13 13:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i do think that ...i mean do youlove her and how much is she worth it..seriously..is there more times when she your sad then when happy?...i think u should leave her...becasue a girl wants what she cant have and who knows maybe by you daitng someone else and her getting a taste of what she does to you thennnn she will appreciate u and maybe that will change her.i hope i helped good luck
2006-12-13 13:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all for second chances, but third fourth and fifth? No. First of all *you* can't change her ways, only *she* can, and she has told you loud and clear she doesn't want to. Give her the boot, move on with your life and grateful you don't have this trash cluttering up your life anymore.
2006-12-13 13:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her because she might b more interested in the other guy while ur flying her back and forth. go out with the women who like u now she cheated on u so i think u should pull away frm her and move on with ur life
2006-12-13 13:35:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋