okay all this time you and ysa friend been hanging out the nshe acts like's she;s gay but she's playing around and all of a sudden there's a rumor about her and this one chick and the n she's deny's it but later she's with you all alone and she twlls you she's gay and it freaks yuo out of course so i stop talking to her 4 a while should i have stopped talking to her or sill be her friend But know we talk a little should i still be her friend or what??????????????
2006-12-13 05:29:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep talking to her. She was a friend before you found out about her sexuality, and if thats all thats changed, then you can still be her friend now. To get round the whole issue of not talking for four weeks, just tell her it was a shock, and you needed some time to think things through.
2006-12-13 05:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should still be her friend. We all have our quirks and faults. Even though as humans, we like to say one is worse than the other, the truth is that some faults are just more acceptable than others. You should come to terms with the fact that she is gay, never get involved in fixing her up with another female, but always be there for her as you have been in the past. Go shopping with her, call her, and hang out with her as usual. She confided in you because she trusts and cares for you. You should not let her down now.
2006-12-13 05:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Christian93 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she is gay and she is your friend..does it really matter that she is gay?? It isn't like she has some kind of diease that you will catch and die from. You wouldn't like it if the shoe was on the other foot. Just tell her that what she does with her life is ok with you but don't try to get me involved. I'm straight and will remain that way. You will be the one that is in the wrong if you break off your friendship because of this. Would hate to have you as a freind if you judge ppl because of their sexual desires. That is petty
2006-12-13 05:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by becca j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a true friend, be her friend no matter what! It's hard for a lot of people to come out with their sexuality, not so much of what everyone thinks of them, but what their friends or family will think. I love my gay friends, and gay people in general. I love anyone who isn't cold-hearted!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-13 05:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should, but if its freaks you out, talk to her about it and tell her, " NO GAY STUFF" talk to her about it so you can feel normal around her again, if you are worried about reputation, then your not a good friend, she is what she is and before you know it you werent freaked out by her. its the same now so don't worry. Follow your heart and if it tells you you don't wanna speak to her well thats your desision, but i say talk to her.
2006-12-13 05:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your friend is gay, does not mean she wants you. That was really shallow of you to stop talking to her. Her sexual preference should have nothing to do with your friendship. Shame on you.
2006-12-13 05:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO you shouldn't have, you can still be friends just tell her that you don't swing that way and you want your relationship to be strikly friends nothing else. but that really hurts when you stop talking to them over something stupid like sexuality.
2006-12-13 05:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by eclipsefreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person was truely a friend you would have never stopped talking to her. Her being gay does not change who she is.
2006-12-13 05:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by vanessac2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the difference who she sleeps with?how does that effect your relationship with her?she's not going to suddenly attack you and being gay is not in any way contagious ,so what's the big deal?
2006-12-13 05:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still be here friend. be there for her
2006-12-13 05:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by auroa26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋