Met someone here on yahoo answers. He seems to be a dream come true. I am falling for him,though my child wouldn't want me to meet him.
Has any of you had that problem with a child?
Also, finding the man of your dreams who seems to come out of
a romance novel?
He loves me and accepts the way I am. How do I give my heart to a man who I met here and spoke to on the phone for 5 hours?
Any advice?
2006-12-13 05:28:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how u feel about him and htat u want to be with him, tell him all of ur dreams with him. tell him that u rteally really love him!
2006-12-13 05:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by da man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, most children don't want their parents to move on after a divorce and find someone new. (I'm just assuming that's the situation here, as you didn't clarify) However, it's not your child's decision how you live your life, especially not your love life. If your kid has an issue with you moving on and finding love again, it's his or her issue, not yours, and it's something that they will have to work through.
You can just simply say- "I met someone I really like and I would love for you to be supportive of me. This is important to me and will make me happy, and the best thing you could do for me right now is love me and encourage me, just like I do for you. Of course, I will still love you just as much." Depending on your child's age (if they are a teen) this just might work. If they are younger, put it in simpler terms.
The bottom line is that life is what you make it. As a parent, most things you do are going to be for your child. But your love life is one of few exceptions to that rule. Do what makes you feel good (as long as it's not hurting you or your child). If that means meeting this guy from online, do it in a safe location until you're sure he's safe, just like you would with any blind date. Good luck to you! I hope things work out.
2006-12-13 05:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rhianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may not agree with meeting men online, especially if you just recently met them, however your child shouldnt have any say in it. No matter if you meet the guy online or at work they may (and probably will) have a problem with it. Well it's not their choice, and if they want you to be happy then they'll shut their mouth and accept it.
When you first meet your new boy toy please bring along a friend just incase. . .
2006-12-13 05:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by jacque_sue89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first answer became best ideal. A love ill domestic dog wines like a domestic dog attempting to get interest and follows the article of his/her affection round hopelessly an helplessly attempting to be loved like a domestic dog follows its mom round.
2016-10-18 05:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant give your heart to someone whom you've only talked to on the phone it's iresponsable especialy when a child is involved
2006-12-13 05:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by chuba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋