Anytime I get in my comfortable no mens for me mood someone comes along showing interest in me. If I was in an eager man seekig mood there wouldn't be anyone showing interest in me? What gives?
2006-12-13 05:28:00 · 21 answers · asked by Bu Tran 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont know... but it seems to be like that... or when you're already dating someone....
2006-12-13 05:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a man I can tell you that I go for the "comfortable" girl rather than the one that looks like shes trying, every time. Two reasons: First, if she looks like she's trying than, more than likely, she's all dolled up. I would consider her high maintenance. Not my type of girl. Second, if she looks "comfortable" it would fit my personality better and I would be more apt to approach her. Hope this helps.
2006-12-13 13:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by ihatecankles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe when you're not trying to attract men you seem more laid-back, friendly, and approachable. Whereas, when you are looking for a man, you may come off as easy or desperate.
2006-12-13 13:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bebe Bluff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have sex appeal and you are not aware of it. Take it easy, enjoy the thrill of being attractive. There are other questions on this site with a question that is exactly the opposite of yours.
2006-12-13 13:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by Gobind T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because probably when your in the no-guy-for-now mood, your just being your regular self, no one in need to impress, no extra girly girl work, your just your regular plain self, and believe it or not, but usually thats what true guys like in girls. im talking down to earth guys, not sick dogs.
if you want them off your back, and your being your self, be the opposite instead, be the obnoxious, slutty chick and then they might back off, although maybe youll attract the no-good guys, try either way, but down to the point, thats the reason you attract them when you dont want them.
2006-12-13 13:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by sueet2b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get the same sometimes. My friends say that appearing unapproachable makes for a challenging turn on.
2006-12-13 13:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pheromones! Guy's subconsciously smell your body Oder (no matter if your waring Deodorant or not) and flock to you. If you want to turn off your pheromones take a bath in lemon juice everyday. Also to turn off your visual pheromones, ware more cloths.
2006-12-13 13:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Stephen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you must be pretty attractive
guys like a challenge not an easy **** (unless really horney then who cares) so when you are looking its not a challenge but when you but on the leave me alone guys face it makes them want you more
2006-12-13 13:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by Acee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcuz you must be gorgeous!lol.......no also i think alot of times it's just when u aren't looking u meet people partly bcuz u seem more challenging to grab and not so easy like girls try to be when they want a date you know... but hey as the saying goes...as soon as u stop looking he finds you....a thought eh?
take care
~Ally
2006-12-13 13:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you turn everyone off when you arent in ur man seeking mood, and when you are no one wants to try to get iwth you cause they are afraid of being rejected
2006-12-13 13:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by T-NutZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being desperate is a turn off for most people. Therefore if you are seeking man (being desperate), most people avoid you.
You need to go with the flow...
2006-12-13 13:36:33 · answer #11 · answered by PS3 Fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋