he goes with bunch of male friends and says the women there are all slags. but his friends love the place. am i to trust him?
2006-12-13 05:15:55 · 41 answers · asked by ellen s 1 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Thailand
No.
If you stay with him, make him wear condoms. Don't take any chances of getting a life threatening STD.
2006-12-13 05:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by steve d 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Flesh is weak and the will is even weaker. He goes to Pattaya (the biggest whorehouse in the world) 3 times a year with his male buddies? Him and his friends are going for the women, no doubt about it.
The only attraction Pattaya has is cheap women and cheap alcohol. There are so many better places in Thailand to shop, relax on a beach, sightsee, etc. If he's saying that he goes for the beach, he's lying.
I don't know the guy but I certainly don't trust him.
I'm happily married and have never cheated on my wife. That said, I'm going to avoid Pattaya simply because I don't need the temptation. The only time I'll ever go there is if I go with her.
2006-12-14 00:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by sirtitus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trusting and believing him is up to you. I have been to Pattaya a couple times once during the day and once I stayed a couple nights. I would have to agree that if his friends like going to beer bars, the girls tend toward "slags". I would not touch any of them. If he goes for the male bonding and does not drink too much then maybe you should believe him. He might get friendly with the women but, beyond that he might not unless intoxicated. I know I would have to be to do anything with some of the women. Even the Katoeys(transexuals) were ugly in my eyes. I am Asian and maybe I see it differently.
Why don't you go with some girlfriends once and see what they do?
Then again 3 times a year? I go that often because my girlfriend is in Bangkok.
Good luck
2006-12-13 06:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by gbdelta1954 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been to Pattaya and there is a nice beach and nice bars there. But there are five streets laden with gogo bars and the Thai girls are everywhere. They proposition you in the streets and were not even bothered that I was with my husband. We didn't realize what it was like before we went.
He may just be going there to look as some people do, but three times a year seems really excessive. Sorry to say this, but there is no way that he is not sleeping with them. There is realistically nothing more to do there. A bunch of lads out there is a prime target for the girls.
People think Bangkok is bad for prostitution but it has nothing on Pattaya!
You really need to talk to him because if he is, this is really wrong and he could be endangering your health by sleeping with other girls.
2006-12-13 05:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No way - not if its 3 times a year and he goes with his mates and leaves you at home. Has he asked you to go along with them in the past? If not beware...He could just be going there and sleeping around or he could have a thai girlfriend and that is why he goes there fairly often. How well do u really know your bofriend? I think u need to have a long talk with him, because if he is going over there sleeping with girls you are wasting your time with him. You may want to think about getting down to the doctors for a quick check up as you may have caught somethig off him. Make yourself a new years resolution and find yourself a decent bloke who will take you on holidays with him
2006-12-14 05:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 times a year?? wow. something must going on. And I went to Pattaya. I've seen something.... I don't think you can trust him.
Maybe he didn't sleep with Thai woman, maybe then drugs??
Thailand is good place for having a nice realaxing time, but you have to make right decision where to go for that realaxing time. Pattaya is not realaxing place. It is noisy party area.
I was in Pattaya, and disappointed and I moved to another quiet island Koh samet.
2006-12-14 02:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. I have known very faithful men go to Thailand and end up with doing the dirty. Also check he's not just being pedantic and while saying he's not had sex with Thai women that this includes Lady boys etc............ sorry but there are nicer and cheaper places in the world and indeed Thailand than Pattaya if beaches and sun were all he wanted.
2006-12-13 05:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get real girl, Pattaya is " THE " sex capitol of Thailand, why do you think he.s there 3 times a year with his mates. Dump the guy before you end up with HIV.
2006-12-15 20:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a word, NO! Not only no but h*** no! No one goes to Pattaya and does not sleep with a Thai woman UNLESS he is gay and prefers men or trannys...
2006-12-17 02:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jim G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go to Thailand often and I am single. You can golf cheap, drink cheap, scuba cheap, windsurf, all kinds of stuff. I hang with the fellas and I don't trust the hos there so much or the nice girls. Even many of them are looking for financial incentive. Not all but its prevalent enough that I see suckers ripped off regularly.
He may not be slagging them but I would see if he has condoms in his bags already. I don't slag em and I am straight.
2006-12-13 09:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by virg922 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the fact that your even asking this question, makes me think you already know the answer. if you dont have trust in a relationship then there can be no relationship. if your worried talk to him and tell him how you feel, if he aint cheating he wont get all uptight and if he is then hes a waste of time anyway. always use condoms though just in case he is as you dont want to end uop with a life threatning desiese x
2006-12-14 05:01:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋