second cousin twice removed a couple of weeks back. I was really drunk, I had one lager shandy and I was totally wasted. The problem is that my boyfriend has been complaining that his nether reigons have been itching. I went to the clinic and have an STD that I caught from my second cousin. I think I have given it to my boyfriend. Can anyone give me a good excuse to tell my boyfriend? He's a bit thick so I'm thinking of telling him that he gave it to me... What do you think?
2006-12-13 05:02:14 · 47 answers · asked by Jo_Diva 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk past him with a pan of boiling water......drop it into his crotch......problem solved and if you add some domestos apparently it kills all known germs......DEAD.Go do it now.....Run!!!
2006-12-13 05:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 6⤊ 3⤋
I think you should own up to what you have done and be 100% honest with this thick boyfriend of yours. I'm not condoning or putting down what you have done but it is your responsibility to be honest and accept responsibility for what is happening. Tell your boyfriend that you have been checked out and that he needs to do the same as you have found out that you are carrying an STD. Also try and be careful about the amount of alcohol you consume or you may be spreading this on to others also.
2006-12-13 05:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, not your everyday dilemma. The best thing is to be totally honest with the people involved. You really need to tell your boyfriend! What happens if he cheats on you and then he gives someone else the STD? Then you're responsible for what he doesn't know. Its a shame that people do stupid things "without thinking" and then something like this happens. Your situation is unfortunate. No need to call you a **** or a whore...I'm sure you feel guilty enough. You really need to discuss it with your b/f before it gets really bad.
2006-12-13 05:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Natalie D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are not that into your boyfriend or else you wouldn't have done your 2nd cousin. Don't lie about the STD. That is lame. I think that you should break it off with your guy and be honest about the STD. You also need to confront your cousin and let him know what he gave you. And next time you decide to do something like that...use a condom.
By the way, I have a hard time believing that you being drunk was the reason you had sex with this other guy. Yes, drinking does blur your perspective on things...but not to the extent that "oops, I accidentally took off my clothes and spread my legs...I don't know how that happened!" You need to be honest with your guy and you need to be honest with yourself.
2006-12-13 05:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I spoke with your cousin the other day. He was pissed because he thought you gave him the STD. Looks like your boyfriend is the one to blame here. Doesn't look like you have done anything wrong, so relax get some shandy and have some more fun.
2006-12-13 14:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by apes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should realize that when you act like a skank, you will be treated like a skank. You got a STD because of the stupid thing you did and don't blame the drinking. The only way for you to never have to go through this again is to tell him the truth and suffer the consequences. Then you will be acting like an honorable person and will have good things come to you.
2006-12-13 05:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jon O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all wow you slpet with your second cousin??? Its that incest? ewww wow but any way to get down to it yeah you should tell your boyfriend that you slept with your cousin and gave him and std its agenst the law to not tell someone about that and its agenst the law to sleep woth your cousin. you have a lot of issues you need to take care and you have to do it fast before your b/f gets the std bad and cant have kids!
2006-12-13 05:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that that's wrong. you should just tell the truth, he deserves that much after you gave him an STD from cheating on him. anything else ain't right...and you should've been checked before sleeping with your boyfriend again, i know i am every time i'm wasted and have sex with someone i don't know.
2006-12-13 05:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably telling him the truth will be the best solution because he will definitely know about it one day and then it will be a very big problem.Find the best time he is very happy and beg for forgiveness(if there is no sin,there will be no forgiveness) I pray it work out for you.
2006-12-13 05:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by cajadman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be honest. Tell him the truth. Make him go to the doctor for the STD. You don't want him to unknowingly give it to someone else.
2006-12-13 05:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by bewitching_green_fairy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you seriously think it's appropriate to blame an innocent person for something YOU did, you deserve what you get. I'm sorry if that's harsh but that's horrible and says a lot about you and your morals.
Be an adult and fess up to what you've done.
2006-12-13 05:05:16 · answer #11 · answered by Stacey K 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋