2006-12-13 04:59:33 · 11 answers · asked by don d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, I tried that. It turns out that the one I had the crush on was really pissed off and dumped me because I was pursuing other girls. She was the jealous kind. Monogamous-types get really offended and wont go out with you if you're asking more than one girl out at the same time.
Pursue the one you really want until / if you figure out she isn't going to go out with you, then pursue the others one by one until you rule them out as well. Don't pursue more than one at a time if you're dealing with people who are monogamous.
2006-12-13 05:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by steve d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ask these other girls out? Are you interested in them as well? If you are pursuing your crush and she finds out that you are dating other girls, anything that you told her looks like a lie and she will not go out with you. If you are just dating in general for fun...date who ever you want, but if you are into one girl in particular, wait and see what happens there.
2006-12-13 13:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope. you should never pursue or ask out more than 1 girl at a time. if you do and they know about it, they'll see you as a player and won't be interested.
2006-12-13 13:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her up if you are going to chase others. I know it will hurt her like hell but it is better that she knows then find out the hard way...
I know men seem to have to do this...and I am sure there is a guy reason...but it doesn't help the ex-crush.
2006-12-13 13:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright from a girls veiw. if you really like this crush of yours. you should g3t t0 kn0w h3r a littl3 b3tt3r y0u kn0. this c0uld turn int0 a r3al g00d r3lati0nship. in th3 futur3.
2006-12-13 13:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by girlie 801 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that ur getting somewhere with ur crush then pursue her, if not then move on
2006-12-13 13:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by crisis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you, but you'll break someone's heart doing that. Sometimes if you really want someone no one else matters or shouldn't matter and if they do...then that person isn't the one for you.
2006-12-13 13:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by tamara_giggles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, pursue her; movies, plays, dinner, time if she's the one.
2006-12-13 13:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by smartbluewater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, or your crush may think you are not interested.
2006-12-13 13:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by Oceanbreeze 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not is the question you have to taste every girl out there until you like the best taste
2006-12-13 13:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋