my bf of 4 yeas and i are on a break because he says i need to change, its been 7 weeks already, ive tried to change but i dont know what he wants, we still talk and stuff but im done crying my tears out, well when im not thinking about the situation, i love him, i do but theres this guy at my neighbors basketball practice and hes been really flirty with me would it be wrong to flirt back or possibly go on a date r two? I plan to get back with my bf but hes taking t o long?? what should i do,
2006-12-13 04:25:39 · 11 answers · asked by Angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what he wants me to change is the way i treat him, but i treat him good the way i want to be treated so i dont know ehat he wants
2006-12-13 04:33:18 · update #1
your on a break so your free to do what you want
2006-12-13 04:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Young and Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, 4 years is a long time and I'm sure your sick behind the situation. Your bf should be able to tell you what he doesn't like and what he would like to see change about you. No-one can make a person change, change occurs when that person wants to change and not a moment sooner. Are you sure your ex-bf wants to get back together, what has he been doing for the past 7 weeks, is he dating other people. Should you go out with the guy that is flirting, if I were you I would put your self in your ex position and if the roles were reversed would you be willing to accept that. You just got out of a long relationship, do rush into anything, take some U time.
2006-12-13 12:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by nitarumptious@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true test of your feelings is to go out with the other guy. Your bf is the one who started this so its ok . Maybe this guy will like you for who you are and you may not need to change after all.
2006-12-13 12:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by miss lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and enjoy yourself. You need friends that your bf of 4 years is not giving you. Go out with others and maybe some day your ex boy friend will grow up and appreciate you, if not forget him and go on with your life. Good luck.
2006-12-13 12:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why be with a guy that can't like you for you dump the BF and be with someone that can accept u
2006-12-13 12:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see if there is anything b/w u and ur neighbor. u and ur bf r on a break and in my mind that means seeing whose out there
2006-12-13 12:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by lalalalalalalalala23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want you. he wants to play games. go out with the other guy and see how fast your bf gets back to you.
2006-12-13 12:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that u shoulnt flirt back wit the guy cuz wat if one day some one sees u flirting wit him and tat gets bak to ur boyfried and no u sshouldnt go on a date wit him!!!be patient woman!lol! but no u shouldnt cuz again hear it goes wat if by coincidence some one sees u wit some other guy and u should wait.
2006-12-13 12:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by mrs.garcia16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, your on break with him anyway.
2006-12-13 12:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him present.... or something that he love. attract him. always be kind. one day, he would realise it.just be patient okay/ you could take it, believe me.
2006-12-13 12:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by the designer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋