me and my bofriend are both in High School. we both want to lose our viriginity to each other. i told him to wait after high school cos i want to start a family with him. he said he would love to start a family with me and he would wait if i wanted to have sex after we finished high school. i can't not start a family when i am in high school cos i would be too busy with the baby instead of my grades and besides my mom would freak out and probably hate me. so should i wait til both me and my boyfriend graduate high school and move into an apartment together or have sex now but don't get pregnant, and don't get caught or let my mom find out?
2006-12-13 04:25:13 · 14 answers · asked by Emo dark KITTY! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I first read this, I took it as a joke. I still don't know if you're serious or not.
How long have you even been with your boyfriend? I think it's so sad that people even consider having children when they're not married. Are you even going to college?
2006-12-13 04:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by argylemoose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. Just have sex after you're married. It really is the best way. It's only then that you know that that person will always be there for you. You also have to take into consideration that a lot of strong feelings also come with sex. Feelings you might not be ready to deal with right now. Please wait until you're married. And if he really loves you, he'll agree to wait.
2006-12-13 12:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most people in high school have sex. It's up to you if you want to or not. But whay do you want to have kids immediately after graduation? Dont you think you should live together for awhile to see how it works out?
2006-12-13 12:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by aprilx4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... girl, you are way to young to even start to think about a family as of yet. My only concern for you is about your plan to move in an apartment to start a family.
I think you need to experience other things in life before committing to something that will lock you down for the rest of your life.
2006-12-13 12:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to be together and start a family, its worth it to wait. The longer you wait, the better it will be. You will have better knowledge about each other and be able to stay together longer, because you will have a better bond. Be careful and safe.
2006-12-13 12:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by snapple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe after marriage, u shud have sex. The only 100% assured way to avoid sex related probs, pregnanc and other sh*t, is to not have sex
2006-12-13 12:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait till your out of high school trust me.... then you'll find out if you really like him or not
2006-12-13 12:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till your married, there is nothing worse then being with someone only to find out that they were only in it for the sex.
if you have to sneak around to be together then you should wait
2006-12-13 12:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're married
2006-12-13 12:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by cutecamille 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait til you get married. sex complicates things. once you have sex then you have to worry about stds, pregnancy, and many other things so just wait!!!
2006-12-13 12:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by SugarPlum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋