there is a 17 yr. old girl who is tired of her parents actin like kids and treatin her like a baby... she as the opportunity to leave with her bf and live with him and his family... they are willin to help her find a good job and help her go to college.. is it alright to leave with this kind of opportunity ahead? legal matters? or anything of that sort... this girl is lookin down 2 path ways.. run away or live with her bf... she really hates her house life with her parents acting like kids then when she messes up over reacting.. ex. when she arrived 4 min. late comin from her bf's house,and having a curfew of comin home at 8 her dad flipped out and started screamin and tellin her she can't go out anymore and sayin he doesn't trust her and doesn't believe she will make anything of her self in life...what does she do? she turns 18 in a few months and her parents don't understand that she is growing up they wont let her drive,cook,clean,or anything they say she is still a little kid,help!
2006-12-13 04:18:14 · 9 answers · asked by Wl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
hello you know who this is and i just wanted to say when i read this it sounded exactly like what life was like for me a few months ago. you took my bf for borritos this morning right well have him explain it to you. hope it helps. oh and tell him i said hi and that i love him. oh and good luck on all the exams...anyways see ya.
2006-12-14 01:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will be an adult soon. Until then her parents have the right to control her. Maybe she should get a job and show some responsibility and they may let her do more and it will prepare her for the real world. If she moves in with her BF she will most likely end up preggo. She doesn't have long to wait, she will be 18 in no time.
2006-12-13 12:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by angelmwilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she can prove in court that she can support herself and get emancipated, then technically leaving home is running away and anyone who helped her would be guilty of contributing to the delinquecy of a minor. It really depends on how her parents would take it, but they sound like the type to call the cops, have her brought home kicking and screaming and press charges. She's better off hanging there until her birthday when all the legal problems go away.
2006-12-13 12:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by tabithap 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she only has a few months until she is 18, then she should wait those few months. I was in a similar situation. If shw doesn't wait the few months until she is 18 than there is some legal action that her parents can take.
2006-12-13 12:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by beanie3720 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this world really going insane? i guess since I never got what I wanted, or nothing ever went the way I wanted, I should have simply left my job, my family and my children right? Thats what your teaching these kids nowadays by letting them do whatever they want
2006-12-13 18:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with what your heart tells you. Don't forget to think of the future and how the choices you make now will effect you later in life.
2006-12-13 12:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Bones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll once you are 18 they cant make you do anything sooo....i would do what you feel is right
2006-12-13 12:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by amyw7313 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh my god get out of there !! go live with your boyfriend.
2006-12-13 12:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by puss n boots 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is ok.
2006-12-13 14:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋