Well we've been together for about 4 months and his dad passed away a couple of months ago and he hasn't been the same what do i do?????
2006-12-13 04:14:27 · 12 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not cheating. He's grieving. Respect that and give him space. Be there when he needs you.
2006-12-13 04:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I doubt that he's cheating on you, especially if his father just passed away. Geez, give the boy a break. You need to be there for him and comfort him. I know you haven't been together long, but he needs closeness and support from you.
2006-12-13 12:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask that question, he probably is cheating on you. You already have trust issues with the guy. Move on. There's plenty of other fish in the sea.
2006-12-13 12:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to let him know you are there for him, no matter what. But give him space, he needs to concentrate on his family right now. He will come back to you when he is ready. Don't take it personally, how would you feel?
2006-12-13 12:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by snapple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ... you should pay attention how he is treating you! also try phone him in a day without you too in front of each other. and ask if you should join him . if yes then it should be alright IF NO better have talk . especially look how he is reacting infront of you . if he is not giving you his attention and kinda think you are bored you better say bye!
2006-12-13 12:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by hello! Im confuse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me this type of thing takes awhile for people to adjust. He may be distant for awhile and turn to people who are closer than yourself, I mean people who have been in his life or his families. Be patient with him and listen, most of all be yourself. He needs someone, it may bring you closer together.
2006-12-13 12:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by irish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still suppose to be there for him because guys take it harder when they lose a love one than girls do. he may feel that everytime a person gets close to him, he loses them. so something in his mind may be telling him to draw hisself away from all the important people and things in his life. try to comfort him and think of something you can do to make him really feel secure with being with you. when they emotional like this, GET EM GIRL!!!!!!!!
2006-12-13 12:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by diedra06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...since his father passed away not too long ago...i would be there for him instead of assuming that he is cheating on you. if he is cheating then dump him...if not..then be there for him
2006-12-13 12:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought hes just grieving?? Leave the boy alone
2006-12-13 12:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cry wolf when fheir is no wolf.this a trylng moment for him.he needs you more this time .this when he needs all the love you can offer.
2006-12-13 12:28:09 · answer #10 · answered by king f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋