I just got this from my bf that is in Ohio, it makes me feel so terrible, can I get your feedback please?

Question

He says he wrote this for me:


Thanks for all you've done
I've missed you for so long
I can't believe you're gone
You still live in me
I feel you in the wind
You guide me constantly

I'm glad it sets you free from sorrow
But I'll still love you more tomorrow
And you'll be here with me still
All you did you did with feeling
And you always found a meaning
And you always will

I carry the things that remind me of you
In loving memory of the one that was so true
You were as kind as you could be
And even though you're gone
You still mean the world to me

And I know
You're a part of me
And it's your song
That sets me free
I sing it while
I feel I can't hold on
I sing tonight
'Cause it comforts me

I never knew what it was to be alone
'Cause you were always there for me
You were always home waiting
But now I come home and it's not the same
It feels empty and alone
I just can't believe you're gone.....

he lives in Ohio and I live in Phoenix, AZ now... we were together for 3 yrs and we got into a fight last August and I moved back to AZ. haven't seen each other since... :'-(

I'm just confused, he wants me to come back to Ohio and get married. He tells me how much he wants to have kids and all that with me. I love him so much, but I don't want to leave again, cause I don't want my family to get mad at me and hate me for the rest of my life... that's one biggie about not going back. My family doesn't want me to leave... so I am confused on what to do...

Answer 1

seems pretty deep, idk what to tell ya..

Answer 2

That's kinda sad. Sounds like he thinks you're going to leave him or something. Especially the I can't believe you're gone part. I mean if he's just missing you he could've said I can't believe you're not here or something. Maybe it's a test to see if you're thinking of breaking up with him. I don't know, I'd ask him what it means. If he says he's just missing you, then I'd go with that, and just think that he's not real good at expressing what he means.

Answer 3

It sounds to me like a man who is in mourning or heartbroken. I don't know how far away you are from each other, or what caused the separation (school?, work?, military service?), but he's definitely letting you know that although you're far away, the memory of you preoccupies his mind. Did you break up, or was it just circumstantial? In any case, it's clear that he loves you.

Answer 4

I agree with everyone else, it really seems like he cares for you, but you said you had a big fight, and apparently whatever it was caused you to want to move away, so I guess you should balance what happened before, with this really great poem. Hope this helps.

P.S. Why do you think your family will hate you?

Answer 5

that would make me feel terrible too, only because it sounds like he misses you a lot. If he took the time to write that for you, then he must really care and he may just want to remind you that he's still cares even if he is far away.

Answer 6

Are you sure everyone is reading this correctly....it sounds like a good-bye to me. not sure how he means it because he's saying that YOU are gone, but it sounds like he's saying good-bye. I'd call and find out what he means in english.

Answer 7

Sounds like he misses you a lot. Good luck

Answer 8

i think its sweet ... but he could be sweet because he did something wrong ,i had an ex do something soooo sweet but like 2 days later i found out he was cheating so be careful..good luck...

Answer 9

If he wrote that...that was pretty deep. Must have been a hard breakup for him.

Answer 10

are you sure he didn't find this on the internet. i doubt he wrote this!! it looks like it is meant to be for someone who died.

Answer 11

sounds like something you would read at a funeral