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i dont like how i look and i wanna change i hate everything about myself
2006-12-13 04:05:58 · 10 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You've got a gorgeous face and eyes... But you need to stop wearing your hair like a rape victim. There's nothing the least bit attractive about appearing goth or emo. Yeccckkk!
2006-12-13 04:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem issues are more common with women I think these days. If you pick up any magazine, you see who is the thinnest in Hollywod, etc. I think it is important to identify why you dislike certain things about yourself. Focus on the real issue. For example, if someone were to make a comment to me about something related to my appearance, I would focus on that. Thats what I used to do. Now I just do not care what people think of me. If they don't like it, look away! What helps me out is going out, treating myself to a new outfit, or new hairstyle, or new makeup, and even if you aren't a girly girl, which I am not, these things can still make you feel great about yourself. I wish you good luck and seriously, you are beautiful no matter what anyone says about you. Just remember that!!
2006-12-13 13:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people go through a point in their life when they hate something about themselves. The worst critic we have is ourself. We see ourself every day in the mirror and we tend to nit pick at things nobody else would normally see.
Self esteem can be a nasty little bugger because even if you changed things it doesn't mean you would feel better about yourself. Have you seen those shows about plastic surgery and the people addicted to it? There was one girl whose nose was so small that it was a real possibility that her nose would collapse. She couldn't even blow her nose she had to use a q-tip. Yet she was still unhappy about the way she looked. Sometimes it's not the outside that needs help it's the inside.
You are who you are and your going to have to accept that. There could be many girls who you wished you looked like but I bet there are many girls your glad you don't look like. You complain about minor things when there are girls who would kill to look like you. When you start thinking of something negative turn it around into a positive. Maybe you hate your hair? At least you have hair! Maybe you hate your stomache? At least your not the girl who had lipo and has a now deformed stomache!
2006-12-13 12:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to be more clear about which part of u that makes u feel lousy. If it's weight,then go gym or do some indoor simple exercise like weight lifting. If there's skin proble, them find a demerlogists to fix whatever the problem faster. Anyway, u sld not fantasize about looking like jessica simpson or britney...or any other celebrities...all each of us have to do is to maximise our own looks...that is try to look at our best without any imitation n be originals ourselves...!
2006-12-13 12:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sedih 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest reading Psalms 139:14. It clearly states that you are fearfully and wonderfully made my God! That's pretty amazing! God designs each and every person different, unique, and in His image. I don't know about you, but, I am happy to be made in the image of someone who created the earth, the sun, the stars, and the whole, vast universe! That's pretty darn wonderful, don't you think?!?! Get a dry-erase marker and write on your mirror, "I am fearfully and wonderfully made". It's always good to have a constant reminder of just how beautiful you really are!
2006-12-13 12:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by B_U_T_FULL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God loves you, and you are precious to Him. Seek God with all your heart, and you will find everything you desired in Him.
In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives you air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives you water to drink and food to eat.
God gives you a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves you, and you are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
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2006-12-13 12:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you hate everything about yourself? There is nothing wrong with how you look. Start telling yourself you are beautiful inside and out and start believing it.
2006-12-13 12:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to get a physical exam. you might have a chemical imbalance that is making it harder for you. Discuss your feelings with the doctor and see a counselor. you seem very depressed and you can be helped. you need to get more positive things in your life. you are an attractive person and could look and feel better with help.
2006-12-13 12:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
form what I see your a pretty girl you should love yourself as you are I don't see anything that needs to be changed
2006-12-13 12:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Young and Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not too bad
2006-12-13 14:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by LIz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋