My father used a more "hands on approach" but i always found it uncomfortable, i tell my son to keep a small journal (informal) and every Sun we talk about it for 10min.. What do you do?
I am open to any suggestions.Thanks
2006-12-13 04:04:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you dont monitor DONT ANSWER!
this is concerning the 75% of responsible parents that DO!
2006-12-13 04:10:11 · update #1
I don't monitor so I guess you really didn't want me to answer but I was just wishing someone would have been doing that for my ex. He was doing it all the time while we were together so much in fact he would have Vaseline hidden all around the house so he could jerk off anytime any where. I would end up begging him to have sex with me instead of himself. I am a very attractive girl and love sex probably a little to much but I would feel so rejected and jealous over his hand. Maybe if someone had monitored him when he was younger they could have got him help. It's anti social behavior and destroyed our relationship.
2006-12-13 04:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why are you monitoring something like this. I have to agree with the others, you're a sick pervert who should be turned into the law enforcement for possible molestation charges.
2006-12-13 04:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Quix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand you want to keep the lines of communication open between your children but you are going overboard with it. That is truly something very personal and doesn't need any discussion.
2006-12-13 05:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Why are you monitoring it?
2. Let him alone.
3. It's normal, you aren't.
4. It's none of your business how often he does it.
5. You're invading his privacy.
6. You're sick.
2006-12-13 04:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by Suga 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say just lock him in his room and let him go for it.. Not really, I guess you should just tell him to try not to do it around people, and tell him its disturbing you, also tell him to get a hobby, something for him to do instead of what he is doing. He will grow out of it eventually
2006-12-13 04:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dad helped you out? did ya happen to have a piece of white bread to finish it off on
every kid is going spank his monkey, let him whack it any time he feels the need, its much better than him getting some girl knocked up and then YOU get to pay child support
2006-12-13 04:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by seven_ms_man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is majorly messed up you sick F**K did you like your dad monitoring you you nasty @SS why would you want to know about him beating?????? now if he was banging girls then yeah i could see you wanting to know if he ways but not no write it down how long how pleasureful and $hit like that you creep give the kid some freedom nasty perv.
2006-12-13 04:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by super_man_4888 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't.
Masturbation for teens is completely healthy, and teens that masturbate are sexually healthier.
2006-12-13 04:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Úlfar Örn K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to? let him have his private life.
2006-12-13 04:14:22 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't monitor it..
That is weird.
2006-12-13 04:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋