It seems to me that every single woman that I ever want to date and maybe have a relationship with is already taken by some other bastard. I know its a little cynical but still, it seems impossible to find a girl that I like, cause they all have the qualities that other men want and I'm **** outta luck. And those that are still single are single for a reason. Any advice, I'm really messed up here.
2006-12-13 04:01:08 · 21 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know your pain. All the kind of guys I am intrested in are taken and it is really starting to piss me off. But hell there is someone for everyone so keep looking you will find her out there somewhere. And you arent messed up, its the crap that happens when you are playing this game of boy finds girl.
2006-12-13 04:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those that are still single are single for a reason?
Thats not always true. I am single by choice, but I have a lot of qualities guys love. I was in a 5 year long relationship. You dont have to be single and a loser. You dont have to marry to be happy either. People always feel pressured by the need to have some one to feel valid. If that is how you feel, than you should work on yourself. You don't need a woman to be valid or confident, its the other way around. You need to be confident to get a woman!
Why dont you stop going after people that are unavailable? There are SO many women on this earth...WAY more then men. So even if every man takes a woman on earth, there would still be plenty left over for you to choose from.
2006-12-13 12:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it's true that all the good ones are taken just for the simple fact that everyone has different things that they look for. and a lot of these girls that are taken will be single in the future. yes people are single for a reason but some choose to be. don't give up, and maybe the problem is you are looking to hard. when you stop looking is when you find someone. there are still good women out there!
2006-12-13 12:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im still single. Im single cause of the bastard I was married too was very violent and there are injuries that I wish not to discuss. Be patient and you will find someone. Stop looking, no matter how bad you want to be with someone. Thats when you will have luck.
2006-12-13 12:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by hemininny911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, did it ever occur to you that there may be a reason that all these other guys are beating you to the punch? Maybe they are doing you a favor by taking out the girls that you don't really need to get mixed up with. Listen, you are young and have plenty of time. Don't rush it. She'll come along and you and her will know it's right when it happens. Stop trying so hard.
2006-12-13 12:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by golden rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For experience purposes its sometimes good to date people who are at least a few years older than you. The mentality of some of hte women youre dating could be immature so give older women a chance. You can always date same age or younger later. At least you'll get good experience and wont feel like this.
2006-12-13 12:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Triskelion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are crazy man! all of them! Man i can honestly tell you that every time i have every tried to find a girlfriend, that all sucked pretty badly. But as soon as i said "screw it, im just gonna live life and not even worry about" i found the woman im going to marry! I think that the key is to not try and find it everwhere you look, its to know its there when you run across it. Just settle down and wait for it to come to you.
2006-12-13 12:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey.... calm down... what does "GOOD" means to you?
First of all you need to check your self first... and ask your self.. are all the good ones taken? and what ever questions come's in yo' head...
But seriously... to be honest... there are alot of good ones out there... seriously... but it seems to me that the word "GOOD" ones to you, are not only some qualities like careers and crap like that, but you also want the "GOOD" looking ones as well... lol... what ever.... I kno' thats what you meant... lol... :o)... be real..
But in the long run, don't even tripp... you will... but probably right now, it's not your time yet... you digg? there is a saying: That who eever your looking for, is definetly looking for you... so don't tripp... jus' wait and be patient.... she will come around... :o)...
Humble yourself.... live life to the fullest, life is too short to set your mind on to something that you can't always expect to happen because you want it too...
Be patient... she will come.... :o)
2006-12-13 12:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by MINA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boys and I were JUST talking about this and here is what we came up with......after 25 the "great ones" start to get married. if you are truly a "great one" someone figured that out already and you are off the market by then...yes there are "great ones" left over after 25 but they are scared by bad relationships and hence no longer great ones
2006-12-13 12:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mikey
No worries someday you will find a girl that is single and is ready to love again so hang in there it will all work out HUGS
2006-12-13 12:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋