Ok I went to my moms house this weekend. When i came back on Monday i saw a tag that was obviously taken off some lingere, panties, or some type of clothes. The tag was from Victorias Secret, i know i havent been there for the longest, so obviously i think he cheated on me with some gurl who probably left it there on purpose so i can know. Plz help me cause I dont know what to do.
2006-12-13 03:59:51 · 17 answers · asked by Pretty me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I went to my moms house this weekend. When i came back on Monday i saw a tag that was obviously taken off some lingere, panties, or some type of clothes. The tag was from Victorias Secret, i know i havent been there for the longest, so obviously i think he cheated on me with some gurl who probably left it there on purpose so i can know. Plz help me cause I dont know what to do. Plus when i confronted him he said he did it on purpose becuase the night before when i was at my moms he called me around midnight and well i was asleep, so i answered the phone and well he thought i was a guy, so he says he did it on purpose. Plz help me.
2006-12-13 04:15:31 · update #1
Sounds like he is playing mind games with you girl! The others are right in that it may be a present, but your at your mom's house. I know when I answer the phone from a dead sleep my voice is much deeper than normal because even my vocal cords go to sleep (LOL). I know this because a couple of times my answering machine has turned on before I can come fully awake and records the first 30 seconds before it shuts off. The next morning I got up saw the light blinking and checked the message. If I hadn't remembered what I had said, I never would have recognized my own voice.
OK with that said, maybe your younger brother answered the phone, then you picked up? I'd watch this guy carefully if I were you, he sounds way to possessive to me, and mean and petty. That was a low-down thing to do and he should be ashamed of himself. Imagine what he will do to you later if you let this relationship develop a little longer! Guys that think like that tend to be abusive later on as a way to control women. Not a good thing.
Think about it, Hon. He appears to have a very manipulative nature and is willing to make you feel badly about something you had no control over. Good luck.
2006-12-21 03:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At age 21 you are a fully fledged adult. You have all the rights and responsibilities of an adult; meaning the only reason she has any control over you is because you allow her to. She cannot tell you when to be in; who to see; what to do. As an adult you are, in a legal sense, her equal. She's treating you like a 17 year old, and you are letting her do it. If moving in with your boyfriend is not an option, then find an apartment for yourself. Then get an unlisted telephone number. Don't let her make you feel guilty about sex (which is none of her business - and I'll bet if you could go back in time you'd find she isn't being quite truth full about her youthful activities) or wanting your own life. Stand up for yourself and if necessary, move out. It may cause hard feelings at first, but she's got to cut the apron strings.
2016-05-23 18:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how when most people wrap presents they dont want you to know how much it costs? Well most likely he just cut the tag off and didn't realize he left it on the floor. Trust me if he was cheating why would there be a tag on the floor there would be something like an earing or actual lingere or a condom wrapper or something more obvious than that. Your paranoid sweety and I don't think you trust him enough so maybe hes done something in the past im not sure but I think you need to give him the benefit of the doubt on this one you don't want to stir up something that may turn sour! Good Luck
2006-12-13 04:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, just take the tag to him and confront. Don't be accusing right off the bat, be calm and look him straight in the eyes and wait for an answer.If you know him and his reactions you will know deep down if he is lying or not.
But one thing to think about is it is almost Christmas and since you are usually with him all the time, maybe, just maybe he used his time without you to go get you something special for a gift.So, if I was you, i would wait to see what you get from him on Christmas and say nothing about it till then. I know its hard to wait but it just might save you a lot of foolish reactions that are not warranted. Up to you. Good luck.
2006-12-13 04:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder why this time of year (Christmas Season) that the first thought you would have is that he cheated on you. Most likely you are being a little paranoid and it is just a christmas present.
2006-12-13 04:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sally V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about it or maybe its a christmas present and he didn't clean up very well why would someone take a tag off their clothes just to let someone else know their partner is cheating its easier just to leave a note with no name or call from a payphone
2006-12-13 04:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by topgunpilot22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until Christmas, and if you do not get some sort of gift from there, then confront him about the tag.
2006-12-13 04:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking he bought you something from Victoria's Secret as your Christmas present.....
2006-12-13 04:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kris W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was using the weekend to wrap your Christmas presents??
2006-12-13 04:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by Leina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you realize what time of year it is? He probably bought you a nice sexy gift and the first thing your gonna do is accuse him. Typical female.
2006-12-13 04:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋