me and a guy have been dating for 8 weeks nothing o serious just abit of fun so we thought, now we are both falling for each other he says he loves me but there are people in the way and he doesnt want people falling out because of it he also says he wants to be with me . When we are together it is good we both have a laugh and enjoy each others company but we are like two teenagers giggling and play fighting. wat does he mean people in the way and falling out?
2006-12-13 03:54:49 · 15 answers · asked by linzi m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's really saying he doesn't want commitment, he jsut says he does so he can get what he wants. Listen to Yammaha, I know the ways of love.
2006-12-13 03:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems to me that he wants you close but is not quite sure where you fall in the hierarchy of things. The "people in the way" are probably a few friends with benefits he's not sure he's ready to let go of yet.
Its been only 8 weeks. I am sure the good time you guys are having makes it seem longer but think....its really only been 2 months out of each other's lives.
As women, we sometimes inflate relationships in to something a little too soon and need to take more cues from men in this area. Slow things down a bit (at least from your perspective) and do not hound him to be specific just yet. Just keep your eyes open, take time to see things at face value, thoroughly enjoy the time you guys spend together, and just go with it at an easy-going pace. Guys like that. Guys love when they are given space (or at least the "illusion" of space).
You probably could use a few "people in the way" just so that you don't drive yourself nuts wanting to know what he's thinking.
Good Luck to you and hope that ultimately you get HIM!!! :0)
2006-12-13 04:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PEOPLE IN THE WAY?
This most likely means that you are not the only one he is having just a bit of fun with.
But it is a wonderful thing that you two are having such a good time together.
FALLING OUT?
What I believe he means by people falling out is if he makes your
relationship public he might lose some of his other just a bit of fun partners.
It seems you knew it was nothing serious to begin with!
As long as you are having a good time who cares?
To bring your relationship to the next level may just ruin it.
Just keep having fun as long as it lasts.
2006-12-13 04:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe mutual friends get do not like the idea? Brothers? Sisters? Parents? Maybe, he thinks getting with you will destroy other friendships he has with females that he cares about. I know this is true with me. The brother does not want me with her, and her family is against her dating at all. Also, our friends are a tight knit group, and us becoming exclusive would break some stuff down about the group.
Hope that helps!
2006-12-13 03:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means, you are not the only one he is seeing. He has a girlfriend that he doesn't want you to have any confrontations with.
2006-12-13 03:58:00 · answer #5 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he has another woman in his life. I'd forget him!!! Because it also sounds like whoever it is...means more to him than you do. Run as fast as you can...in the opposite direction!
2006-12-13 03:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Dianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds to me like hes not really too sure if he really loves you yet , but i mean the falling out thing...NO CLUE!!!
2006-12-13 03:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to get things straightened to see whether ,he really loves you like he says
2006-12-13 04:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by king f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his parents or friends don't like you and or your family
2006-12-13 04:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by cutecamille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meh buttons mama
2006-12-13 03:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋