how does my love grow towards him he treats me very nice.
2006-12-13 03:54:41 · 28 answers · asked by vee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him and he loves you who cares what he looks like? What I have found is that the better looking the guy, the more stuck on himself he is and the less he cares about others. He is always preening and looking for his next conquest. Stick with your man - looks are only skin deep.
2006-12-13 03:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Hallon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one because attraction is a MUST to keep everyone together. Without it....it ends badly.
I would try to give it time, if in a few months you still feel nothing more, than I would end it. You really dont owe him to stay with him if you feel you cant be attracted to him. Remember during the next few months, I would NOT focus on this becuase you are only setting yourself up for potential failure. I would let things be and not think too much of it until a few months are up.
good luck.
2006-12-13 03:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you. You say the sex is great (that's all anyone can ask for) what difference does it make if he's not sexually attractive. By the way what is sexually attractive?
2006-12-13 03:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in Love with a idea of what everyman should look like or do you want the real thing and this guy is making you feel somewhat good about your self or you would not be staying with him Sex is not the only thing that matters in a relationship and sex outside of marriage really clouds your perspective of marriage Be honest with your self and good luck
2006-12-13 04:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bob T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not based on sex alone. Love is how you feel when you are with that person. Do you want to spend every minute with him? Do you picture yourself 10 years from now, married and posibly kids? Does he treat you like you are the only person on earth that matters to him? The fact that he is good in bed is only an added bonus.
2006-12-13 03:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Full of contradictions. U went to the extent of having sex with him even though u did not find him sexually attractive. Now that u have found to be wonderful inside, why do u bother of the outside.
2006-12-13 03:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give a chance for the love to grow further and never forget the wonderful things he is on the inside. What's on the outside is definitely not the most important thing. Good luck!
2006-12-13 03:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to surprise you and treat you "bad" sometimes and watch the sexual juices flow ;)
Either that or at least deal with the fact that you have a very nice caring bf and that he loves you and that you could be stuck with a jerk instead you have a very good bf and lucky to have you.
2006-12-13 03:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by Triskelion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect him and appreciate him for his personality and character, etc.
Talk to him and get to know him even better! This will help you to feel more special feelings towards him--and I'm sure your love for him will be on a much surer foundation than love based on superficial sexual attraction! Good luck :)
2006-12-13 03:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess since he's not sexually attractive your love would have to grow for him based on how good his sex is. lol. but try not to focus on him being unattractive because sometimes those be the best ones.
2006-12-13 04:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by diedra06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋