This outgoing, touchy-feely girl with a shy side has been my friend for years. Lately, she became a great friend. A while back, I asked her if she was flirting with me and liked me. She said that she liked me as a good friend. After that, she kept asking what more I wanted than friendship. I told her I wanted to be friends, but I had to be careful because she is the kind of person I could fall for. Since then, we have grown closer. Now, she touches me all the time (the upper arm, the upper leg, shoulder-to-shoulder, and snuggling). She also makes jokes about me being her boyfriend and other girls being "competition." She spends almost all of her time with me when she sees me now. I have strong feelings that she likes me. What I want to know is why now? Did something change? And why is she doing all of this stuff? Is she expecting something? Thanks for any help!
2006-12-13 03:53:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The way it sounds, she liked you from the beginning and she just wasn't sure whether you liked her the same way or not. You said she has a shy side which would explain why she didn't just come out with how she felt. When a girl says a good friend and then asks what if you want something more thatn friendship, that means she's thinking you could be a possible boyfriend or that she likes you more than a friend and she wants to see if you feel the same why. Shy people have a good way of getting an answer without asking an obvious question and by her asking you if you wanted something more she was seeing if her feelings for you were justified. I think she is doing all of this new stuff because she wants to get your attention. I don't thing she changed so much herself, but she may have realized that with you two being friends any other girl could just come and take you from her. With you two getting closer, she doesn't want to lose her chance of you two being together. At least that what it sounds like because you said she talks about other girl's being competition. she could be trying to get your attention. If you like her too, you should try to hint that you may feel same way and she won't feel like she has to try so hard to get your attention.
2006-12-13 04:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it means anything with the touching I am the same way....especially if I am comfortable with the person...If you known each other for a very long time she is maybe only realizing that you could possibly be the one...If this is bothering you the way she is feeling towards you then maybe you need to sit down and confront her...otherwise you might need to open your eyes and realize yes she could be the one....Good Luck!
2006-12-13 03:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 13:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously likes you, i think your already out of the friends zone and into the potential boyfriends zone. Her feelings have probably been building up gradually for quite some time. It sounds like she wants more than friendship. If you like her too then you should ask her out.
2006-12-13 03:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋