even though you werent attracted to them..did you kiss them?
2006-12-13 03:48:42 · 21 answers · asked by chris l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women are more likely to do this than men.
There is no point for me to go out with someone if there is no attraction. You make it sound like only ugly girls have good personalities... that's crazy talk. There are plenty of hotties with great personalities.
2006-12-13 04:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes . Every guy I ever dated!. Persona is everything. Looks don't rate. Even though their looks weren't great they were attractive to me. I don't look that great either. The guys or girls for that matter that do look good think they are gods or goddesses. What a loss for them. Great for us. I will say this. Some of the guys I dated were very goodlooking physically but total jerks. No substance at all. They were few and far between.
2006-12-13 11:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I have. My philosophy is to go out on a date with someone atleast once. You never know who exactly you will meet, and it is after all just one moment in a lifetime.
I went on a date once with a friend of a friend in college. He was not the classic type of good-looking in a physical way, but he was extremely funny and made me laugh throughout the night. We had a really great time and he was very gentlemen-like the entire evening. Sure, I kissed him at the end of the night (no Frenching).....and it wasn't a "sympathy" kiss either.... I wanted him to know that I enjoyed his company.
We're actually great friends now.
2006-12-13 11:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think personality is attractive. dont you. i mean just because someone isnt hot doesnt mean you cant be attracted to them. i met this guy who wasnt drop dead gorgeous but his personality made him very attractive and yes i did kiss him ive done more than kiss him and let me tell you. he is the best in this world when it comes to that. i have strong feelings for him and i believe i can stay attracted to him. think of it this way. looks fade. the most gorgeous people will lose their hair or teeth someday or get fat. everyone does. even you. so dont feel so bad because someone you like isnt hot. if they are great people thats what matters . of course that person could lose that personality and then they would definately be ugly.
2006-12-13 12:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by chandal r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, matter of fact it was my husband. It was a blind date so before we even actually went on a date all we did was talk on the phone and text message each other all day. When I actually got a chance to meet him face to face, I was disappointed as he was not what i was attracted to physically but I still enjoyed him and already had a fondness of him because of his personality. He treated me like a total lady. I love that man to death because of his personality.
2006-12-13 11:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by stella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, meshing of personalities is most necessary in a long term relationship. Visual attraction, over time, may decrease; but, mutual personality attraction can endure time and lead to happy and healthy marriages in all areas.
2006-12-13 11:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jesse2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just to prove to myself that looks aren't everything and that personality really doesn't matter, actually had a good time, but I don't kiss on the first date.
2006-12-13 11:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you WERE attracted to them. I think a great personality is way more attractive than looks.
2006-12-13 11:53:14 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality never leaves someone, while superficial looks leave with age (unless you use Botox), though you can always be attracted to someone even as you age together.
2006-12-13 11:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by BigAl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should date people because of their personalities not just because of their looks, looks are superficial and change and if you are dating someone you should be attracted to them
2006-12-13 11:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by scholaryoshi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋