I am TOTALLY in love with my girlfriend but almost everyone i know hates her and they are trying to separate us. She is the best thing that has EVER happened to me and i need her but no matter how many times i tell people that they just dont listen. I CANNOT let my dad break us up and i really just dont know what to do. I need and love her sooo much =[ PLEASE HELP!!!!
2006-12-13 03:47:04 · 13 answers · asked by Kara S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you dude? From the sounds of it you seem to be in middle school. I may be totally wrong here. You may not even be in love. If you really truly believe you are though then you should talk to your parents about the situation. My best bet is that you just believe you are dude. There's not much we can help you with on here. Just talk to your parents and your friends. That's all you can do bro.
Good luck,
-Taylor
2006-12-13 03:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Untouchable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say "everyone" you know hates her, you need to ask them why? If it's your dad, he only has your best interest at heart. Ask him what he sees that's so wrong about her. If no one has a good answer for you, ignore them and stick it out with her. Don't allow others' to control who you like if they are not willing to give a good reason. It just could be that some, or all, have a good reason.
2006-12-13 11:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by capnemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried listening to peoples reasons as to why they hate her maybe some of them have valid reasons. If you truly believe that people just don't understand her then just ignore them. You love her then be with her and don't worry about what others are saying. People will always talk about you you can't avoid it. When people start to tell you things about your relationship just walk away if you walk away enough times they'll hopefully get the point and leave you alone.
2006-12-13 11:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Help Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as far as I'm concern it is YOUR relationship....and u can't let no one control your relationship....if that's how u really feel about her then that's good....dont let no one separate you guys....because i bet she feeling the same way about u....and if u love her and care about her like u say u do, then u want let nothing break yall apart but if everyone don't like her there must be a reason....but dont let that change your feelings for her
2006-12-13 11:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lady B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a lesbian? Your screen name makes it seem like your relationship may be. You might as well be prepared for a certain amount of social rejection. It will happen. Contact an on-line group that deals with conflicts in this type of relationship.
2006-12-13 11:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first, you should want her not need her, you need air and water. Second every one you know cannot be wrong. It sounds like you're infatuated or in lust. People on the outside can see things clearer, they may not understand your feelings but they can see the whole picture.
2006-12-13 11:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by kimking711 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...you cant make everyone in life happy. If you like this girl, then its possible your friends are jealous of you because she is hot and your friends maybe cannot get a girl like that. If she is a total B****, then dump her.
2006-12-13 11:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by The Dark Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you that you have to listen to what your dad says? and if you're under 18, then think twice about your feelings. if you're over 18, no one has the right to judge what you feel, youre old enough to know what you are doing.
2006-12-13 11:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it about her they hate? If you figure that out, you and your girlfriend should sit down and talk to those who are trying to break you up about whatever it is.
2006-12-13 11:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Bird Flippin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life and you should be the one to run it. So do what will give you happiness. Your dad needs to learn that he cannot control your personal life.
2006-12-13 11:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋