He's 46 and I'm 16 and he has children older than me but now he's worried someone might find out and he's going to end it. I'm in love with him and I know he has strong feelings for me as his head is in bits about it and I want to go public with him what can I do?? Please help.
2006-12-13 03:46:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well 1st of all ur stupid for sleepin with him in that 1st place i aint tryin to sound like a b*t*c* or any thiing! but i cant be so mean!! well i am gunna be 16 n dating a 22 year old my mom was okay with it after i told her!! so maybe u should talk to ur mom just tell her how u fill and if she dont want u to live with her or some thing maybe he will talk u in!! this is pretty crazy though i am sorry good luck!!!!!!!! and another thing they can never stop u for the some one u love!! i am in love with my boy friend and no one is gunna mess it up u know!
2006-12-13 03:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, that's a new one. Well I've dated a guy that was 14 years older than me, but 30 years, oh my god hun, what's wrong with you?! Okay, think about this next time, or every time you think about him. When you're 25 He's going to be 55! When you're 30 he will be 66, do you really think you will love him for the rest of your life? Do you really think he'll be there for you forever? Or is he just getting his Jolly's (like almost all the older men I've talked to online) being able to get a girl more than half of his own age. Come on now, put this into perspective. You need to find someone your own age sweetie, even though he's intelligent, treats you like no other man has (I'm sure, because the older the wiser, I've come to find out) So just really, think about it, is it worth it. And what would your mom think, when she finds out her baby, is dating an grown man(who should know better) And It really is kinda gross if you think about it, that he has kids older than yourself. Ask him what he would think if his teenage daughter were dating a guy his age, see what his reaction is. And really you still are a baby hun. You have a TON of growing to do, and you really need to think the whole situation through, rationally. Hope that helped, didn't mean to be mean, but that's just my thorough answer.
2016-05-23 18:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U definately must be insane.. for God's sake... he's 46.... that's a 30 year gap...
he's like your dad...
Plz sweety... find some1 who is of your age... and if u r really interested in older men.. then look for somebody who is 4 yrs older to you...
but not tht old....
2006-12-13 03:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by richard k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you 're crazy. First of all, you know your in the wrong and im shure you feal really guilty right now, because you should. And he should too. you may think you guys are in love but in reality he is taking advantage of you, whather you believe it or not. Were so young we dont need to go out wit men that can be our dads age. Its it because you dont have have a father figure?Think about it.
2006-12-14 06:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by luv ya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is almost rape....dont go through w/ this relationship unless u think he is SOOOO great that u wanna lose all the ones u love cause ur not gonna have friends doin a 46 year old so stop and do not make this public.... it is sick wat he's doin to u he's obvisiliy taking advantage of your age
2006-12-13 03:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if your mom find out your dead meat lol and second leave him your 16 and don;t know how the world is and your looking for some love in the wrong place find someone your age
2006-12-13 03:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must hate your mother to do such a horrible thing to her. Imagine how you'd feel if she was sleeping with your ex boyfriend. Its wrong on such a high level. Don't you have morals? Are you insecure with yourself that you feel the need to be conducting yourself in such an immature manner?
2006-12-13 03:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go public and he goes to jail. Yeah that sounds like a way to show your love.
2006-12-13 03:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! Im sorry but you need to be getting a man a lil bit coser to your age.... he is almost old enough to be my GRANDPA!!! And to make matters worse he is your moms EX BOYFRIEND!!! WOW... Thats so like over 20 years in jail for him.. eekkk, GROW UP you sick FREAK... BOTH of YOU..
2006-12-13 04:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by lil_miss_lynn33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no good...he's not right and too old for you. look around in the school..there must be many cute boys around your age you can date. he's not a good person to sleep with your mom then you esp. you're only 16!
2006-12-13 03:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋