i broke up with my boyfriend, not to long ago because we had a date and he cancelled but never called to do so, but this isnt the first time hes done this what should i do if i let him back into my life. ps he took my virginity..
2006-12-13 03:06:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him back in your life? Why-because he was your first? So what....that doesn't give him the right to walk all over you.
Taking your virginity does not mean he is the one or deserves any special treatment. If he stood you up and doesn't even call then get over him and move on.
2006-12-13 03:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kris W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by leaving him. No one should be treated like that. He should have called to let you know what was up. A lot of people have sad stories about how one took their virginity. It's okay its a lesson to be learned. You now know what you want in a guy in that you want someone to treat you with love and respect and who is considerate of your feelings. You can move on now and focus on your life and wait for the time when you can have a mature, serious relationship.
2006-12-13 03:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by missprissy1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,Right now I can tell you that he is a big player, some guy that if they see some gril better looking than you he'll go for it. From the sound of it you mad a good chose about breaking up with him. I would not go back out with him. When he does ask you back out say no, I found someone better than you. Then he is going to want to now who this guy is, but that's when you walk away with a smile. To spice things up you could flirt with other guys around him and make him mad. Just let him now what he is missing and that you are his life. Dont let him play you!!!!!!
2006-12-13 03:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by black_thorn91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holding grudges is bad for you. Move on and find someone better. If he is not considerate enough to call you when he can't show up for a date, he's not worth it. I'm sorry you gave your virginity to him, but the world is full of nice guys.
2006-12-13 03:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Miss T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore his calls and give him a taste of his own medicine. Doesn't sound like a good relationship, though, so I think you should consider just letting him go. If he's being disrespectful of you he's not worth your time or effort.
2006-12-13 03:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down and have a talk with him. No one deserves to be treated like that. Just let him know how it made you feel. Tell him if he continues to hurt you then there is no reason you two should be together.
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-13 03:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by teresasays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll likely need you again for the very same thing he used for before. You, on the other hand, don't need him for the very same thing he's done to you before.
Usually, a good transaction benefits both sides.
2006-12-13 03:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him back in your life, and learn to make better choices in the future.
2006-12-13 03:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like HE broke up with YOU. Get over it, it's a done deal.
2006-12-13 03:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say gather a posse and have yourself a good old-style lynching.
I miss lynchings.
Cheers
JH
2006-12-13 03:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by Darkepoet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋