We belonged to two different cultures. During our relatioship we discussed alot about our differences and it felt that we could not go together with our respective cultures-- one had to enter into other's culture, which both of us couldnot. So we decided to separtate. But this has not decreased my love for her. Only we have stopped seeing eachother. But my pain is too much for me to bear. Does anybody have any piece of advice or suggestion for me?
2006-12-13 03:06:44 · 9 answers · asked by sahil_samandar88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Isn't God apart of both your cultures?Does it really matter how you worship as long as you worship with your heart and soul?Maybe your difference are man made and not at all spiritually wrong.
2006-12-13 03:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't listen to Sammy and try not to use another relationship to as pain killer, trust me it doesn't work. It's actually more trouble than it's worth.
I know this is going to sound lame but time is the only thing that can heal this wound.
Try keeping yourself busy though to make it pass more swiftly. Go to a few games, a concert and thing really and prefferably things you enjoy but may not have done with "her". Call a few of your guy friends and just go somewhere for fun.
I am trying to deal with a similar issue right now, what's worse I attempted to move on before I was truly ready to. Imagine waking up one morning to realise your still in love with your x but you've started soemthing new.
So take my advice give yourself time and when you are ready for another relationship... don't expect that person to be "her".
Being single can be fun. Enjoy it!
2006-12-13 11:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. If you know it cannot be worked out, then with time, it will get easier. Hang out with friends, do something you enjoy doing. Get a part time job on top of your normal job. Keep yourself busy. But I think it sucks to throw love away just because of "cultural" differences. Why not blend the two and make your own culture?
2006-12-13 11:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone once told me that when you end a relationship it's like mourning a death. I speak from exprience, time will heal your wound. No one will ever replace her, but you will find happiness again. You just need to give yourself time and when you're ready the opportunity will come. There really isn't a quick fix for a broken heart, you're just going to have to go through the emotions. It's a dark tunnel that you're going to have to go through, but at the end you will be a stronger person.
2006-12-13 11:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by AngelLuv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you?????? If you loved eachother it does not matter what kind of culture you come from! If you go to two different churches so what! If you love someone you will embrace your difference and keep on loving each other. None of us is the same but we all love the same. Love each other for being who they are, that I think is the key to happiness don't you????
2006-12-13 11:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by twinki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her..i don't think she is so stone hearted..she may understand..hey my friend i can understand u..bcoze i'm passing thru zis....not bcoz of cultures but bcoz of parents..but i think she may understand u,,,,its difficult to 4get one's love....i pray everything get well 4u...
2006-12-13 11:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by mimine0075 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time
2006-12-13 11:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need time and communication.
2006-12-13 11:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you cut yourself?
2006-12-13 11:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋