am getting married soon.Till now i have not done any sexual activities and i'm waiting to do it after my marriage only.
but i know A-Z knowledge about sex.I and my friend(girl) have watched lots of sex scenes in internet.
My question is how should i behave to my husband after marriage during sex? should i have to behave like a girl who have knowledge abt sex (OR)
should i have to act as an girl who dont have much knowledge abt sex?
I am asking this question, coz my friend insisted me to behave as a girl, who don't have much knowledge abt sex.coz she told that gents will love if a girl behaves unknowingly abt sex.(i mean A-Z abt sex).
(am indian).
please advice me.
thanks in advance.
2006-12-13 03:05:02 · 29 answers · asked by ColD fIRe! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
well congratz that ur getting married soon..
i iwll be getting married in 1 month
and i m pakistani..
well i know some stuff bout sex to..
but i would just be normal wit the guy..
i know that u know alot btu still dont go up to him and sya u know thingz abouts sex and stuff just do it ...
if he doesnt know how..(lol) then tell him alittle..
since we speak kinda the same language.. and stuff and know alott about our culture.. i would sya that just be shy..
if itz a love marriage (liek miine) then be shy.. he will like it... i know my fiance does... he loves it when im shy..
i hoppe u just enjoy ur life. and just dont worry about it to much
if u like my response then email me at sumaira_coolgirl@hotmail.com
ok bye
n congratzz
2006-12-13 16:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by ashu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is...what you see on the pornographic sites are exaggerated! Please keep that in mind.
Your husband may not have one of those massive "tool"..Its quite normal that even if he has a normal sized penis, he would be able to please you.
Take your time, talk together and understand what clicks for each of you and together.
Involve in sexy games as foreplay. It could be a coordinated undressing...and a lot of smooches in between.
Involve yourselves liberally in oral sex...in the right way!
My personal opinion would be to avoid anal sex at any cost!
Try out different positions...*****, missionary, woman-on-man, sitting-squatting etc.
Have a good after play as well...
If you are excited by the stimulation of certain parts of your body, make a game of it with your husband and let him explore you!!
If he gets you right first time, reward him liberally by doing what excites him...and so on...
use your imagination....make healthy fantasises together and relive them...
Finally..safe sex is very important...have fun and a long and happy married life!!!
2006-12-13 18:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So nice to know that you know about the A - Z of sex. Should your husband come across as an unlettered guy, your knowledge could be very useful for him.
Just behave normally. Don't pretend to be anything that you aren't.
2006-12-17 17:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should have to act as an girl who dont have much knowledge abt sex for 1st month but after one month u should express ur real sex feeling abt him i know he likes u very much
wish u a very happy n sexy married life
2006-12-13 21:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by silver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be truthful to him. Also, knowing theory is far different than practice. Also, if you know about sex or not, when you get aroused, it doesnt matter how much theory you know. Things just happen there. I don't think you should be worried about how to behave. Just enjoy the moments and both of you will be fine.
Good luck with your first experience! I am sure you will love it.
2006-12-13 14:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by havefunguy31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not what you see in movies or on the internet. Sex is sharing with someone special. Learning each others likes and dislikes. You won't know either until you have experienced them with him and he you. I am 55 years old and don't know all there is to know. Everyone is different. Just let it go and don't worry about it. It might not be what you expect at all. Not everyone likes the things they see in those blue movies.
2006-12-17 16:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Fruit Cake Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all as an American guy, let me say I find Indian women BEAUTIFUL. That being said let me give you my opinion on your question. Note this is only one guys opinion though. I perfer to have a woman that knows what she is doing in bed. The best partners know the differience between sex, and changing motor oil, but... and there is a LARGE but, I think even if the woman thinks she knows everything she should have an open mind and be willing to try new things. ( you never know you may like it ) good luck
Jeremy
2006-12-13 03:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have started in a downward spiral if you aren't going to be open or honest with him, first thing to do is get through your day and take it from there as you come closer to the night. You may find he is in just as much doubt as you. Talk listen hear and try. Then just have fun with each other
2006-12-13 03:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is true i as a male advise you to act as a girl who does not know a single word of sex cause we love to have intercourse with people who are totally dependant on us (according to my point of view).So go on then when you are free with him say after 2-3 months if he insists on doing sex then go on do it as a proffesional as you know A-Z about sex he will be quiet impressed with this huge change.
have a great life
2006-12-20 13:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by sunny parihar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-13 17:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by Amit n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋