Im wondering from reading alot of these questiosn and answers about bachelor and bachelorette parties if you you think it is ok to hookup at these events cause your not married yet? Arent you in a commited relationship and that is why you chose to get married?
Ladies and Gentelmen let me know your point of view on this?
2006-12-13 02:38:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
no its not okay in my opinion. it doesn't matter if u're married yet or not.
2006-12-13 02:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica R 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Now just imagine five years down the road, you are happily married (or so you thought), and you come home from work and all your clothes are outside spread out on the lawn!
This scenario is true it happened to a close friend of mine. After all those years his wife finally found out the truth about the Bachelor party. Did she take him back? Nooooo, she found out that there was more then one woman. He thought that hey if he could get away for this long with lies then why not screw a couple more.
My point is that marriage is a sacred thing,you are in it together for better or worst. But to stay together you need trust,honesty, and faithfulness - so that you can get through the worst!
If you don't plan to stay faithful, then why even get married. Just stay a bachelor all your life and have all the women or men you want. Why cheat and ruin anothers life just to satisfy your sexual pleasures.
2006-12-13 03:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by TRUSTME 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even though, you aren't technically married yet, you chose to get married because of the commitment you have to each other. Hooking up is not an option. It's still cheating.
2006-12-13 05:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by rena_813 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is wrong. You are supposed to be in a serious relationship with someone already. I would have never done that to my husband....and if he had did that, there wouldn't have been a wedding. A few of my friends that are married, like to go out and drink and dance around and do who knows what else with other guys...I think that is just wrong. If there husbands only knew. I just don't see why people do this. I think that it is wrong, you should just be involved with the one that you are going to marry, you should be deeply inlove with that person, and you shouldn't need someone else to look at. That is my opinion.
2006-12-13 02:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by buckeyefever7 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You plan to get married, you've been with someone long enough to consider marriage to them, and your in love with someone. WHY would you hook up with someone else at a Bachelor or Bacherlette party? It would be the same as cheating.
2006-12-13 02:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its totally wrong! How can these people cheat on their soon to be husband/wife just because they're not married yet. They might as well throw the whole relationship out the window the night they decide to cheat. If they're really scared about only being with one penis/vagina forever, then maybe marriage is not for them. These people will find any excuse to me nasty one last time before they're hitched.
2006-12-13 05:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's cheating, and I am actually not gonna bother having a party like that, I see hen nights in the town and feel embarrassed for the poor people dressed like tarts and staggering drunkenly around, not my idea of fun!!! If I found out my other half cheated at his stag night I would call the wedding off, without a seconds hesitation.
2006-12-13 03:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No it's not alright! If you're about to be married, why would you even consider this? If you are at the point of engagement, you should be crazy about your fiance. You shouldn't be thinking in that direction unless you are having big doubts about wanting to be married to begin with. I mean, everyone has doubts, but I think it's usually looking into the future, will it work out...but ruining it before it begins...then what's the point?
2006-12-13 02:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think that if you are tempted to hook up with someone at your bachelor/ette party, then you aren't ready to get married. Just because you aren't married doesn't mean that honesty, loyalty, and faithfulness should be discarded for one night.
2006-12-13 03:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's OK. I, like you, think you are in a committed relationship. If you still want to hook up with other people you shouldn't be getting married.
But there are people out there that have "open relationships." I don't get it, but who am I to judge.
2006-12-13 05:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by baadfishii_35 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not ok. Even if you weren't about to be married,cheating is cheating. When you made your relationship exclusive hooking up with someone else became off limits. I am a woman married for 16 years.
2006-12-13 02:42:54 · answer #11 · answered by kat 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋