its like im in love with him and im not sure if he loves me too but all i know is that he is always giving me attention and talking to me. he gets jealous when i talk to other men but he once said that he cant committe to me since he travels the world and plus he is in the us army. but i cant resist him, please tell me what to do,. how do i move away from him without him noticing and without hurting myself since in the past i've been hurt a lot. please help
2006-12-13 02:31:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl just take it easy dont rush into nothing, if it was ment to be it will happen, just look at him as a friend that you allow to do things to you that you wouldnt normally let any other male friend do. I guess what im saying is dont rush into things because when you do your bound to get hurt and to save yourself the heartache if he does see other people and especially if hes not ready for commitment.
2006-12-13 03:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not sure if he loves you, he won't commit yet he does not want you to even talk to other men. This is not a relationship more like one person trying to control another persons life. He clearly knows how you feel about him and is using that knowledge to behave this way. He is not worth it and you can do better. Why should you consider his feelings when he clearly does not consider yours? Get on and live your life without him.
2006-12-13 10:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try finding another man, as many men as there are out there. it sucks when you meet a girl who's stuck on someone who's not going to be faithful if they even did get with you. he's in the Army. I'd forget about him if I were you......period. no other way to say it. just forget about him. let him do him, if he really wanted to be with you, distance or no distance, there's nothing that wouldn't make him get you on a plane and fly you where you were. Hmmmmmm
2006-12-13 10:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by puertorock882003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a painful situation. There's nothing worse than feeling like you're putting more into a relationship (or the possibility of a relationship)..... I'd say move on and get involved with someone who CAN commit to you, like you deserve.
2006-12-13 10:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Elsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he travels so much,it wont be hard for him to get you off his mynd,the issue is you girl.the heart is one funny part of the body that u cant help bein hurt.u cant avoid it at this stage,what u should do is brace urself up and be prepared for the few days of pain.after which galfriend u wil be bac on ur feet and ready to move on.dont hang on to him for longer than is necessary.u gotta live your own life like he is living his and without u
2006-12-13 10:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by beaume 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him commit to him and assure him that you will always be there for him no matter how far away you are.if it doesn't work out you will testify that you did your best in maintaining the relationship.Then you can move on.
2006-12-13 10:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not wanting to committ because he is foolin wit other girls around the world. I mean you might be the main chic but you aint the only chic...
2006-12-13 10:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by Beautifull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on--you have to.
2006-12-13 10:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it if you run youll die a lonley old woman
2006-12-13 10:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by DR.PHIL-A-LIKE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take ur feelings....shine it up real nice.....stick it right into his candy ***
2006-12-13 10:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋