are these signs that my ex gf mite be missing me? i need advice, i would reall like to win her back!?

Question

my ex dumped me 3 weeks ago.. i still love her and want her back, she said she is too young to be in a serious trelationship, but a week or 2 before we broke up she said she is really happy with our relationship she wanted a serious relationship , we dont even live together, we are both 19.. i took it hard, i begged her for nearly 2 weeks to take me back, i feel dump for begging, so im playing it cool now..she said she was goin to a bar the other nite i didnt go(keepin cool) dats what ive been told to do if i want her back..she rang the next day askin bout her stuff in my room.. she e mailed me today, i was just talking to her as a freind i acted as if i was fine... we where talkin bout casual stuff, then she asked me if i was with any other girl.. i said no, then she said i bet u are ,u can tell me i dont mind... do you think this means she still has feelings for me? if she really didnt care she wouldnt have asked in the first place,,,, i want other peoples oppinions.thanks

Answer 1

Dan

That was her way to see if you are OK and she would not care for if she did most women do the opposite we don't want to know or hear that our ex has moved on but girls that do are usually the ones that want to only be your friend and to make sure that you are OK so sorry you may need to move on from this one

Answer 2

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Answer 3

My opinion is that she would feel better if you did have a new girlfriend so that she would be free to pursue another guy...maybe she has even already met him, but wants to see if you have moved on already, so she won't feel guilty.

She certainly did not have any problems ending it so why would she have any problems starting up with you again if she were interested? She does not seem shy..but she seems confused.

Time will tell. Being unavailable and aloof if it does not come naturally to you is difficult. Also if she is kind of back and forth, does your heart REALLY need that?..only you can answer. No one likes rejection. Make sure that you really think about all the mixed messages you are getting, which seems a real basis of this relationship, and decide if that is what you really want in a relationship. Do you want the rollercoaster OR do you want to be with someone who truly loves you for you?

Answer 4

she still has feelings for you. I know because ive asked that question before when ive wanted a guy back. The thinking behind that question is "i really hope he's not with someone else, I still love him". Id say play it cool for another week then send her an email telling her how much you love her and want to ty again. She'll be back in no time at all.

Answer 5

I am in an almost same situation as you, only mine is a bit worst. Yes, these are signs that she still have feeling for you.