am getting married soon.Till now i have not done any sexual activities and i'm waiting to do it after my marriage only.
but i know A-Z knowledge about sex.I and my friend(girl) have watched lots of sex scenes in internet.
My question is how should i behave to my husband after marriage during sex? should i have to behave like a girl who have knowledge abt sex (OR)
should i have to act as an girl who dont have much knowledge abt sex?
I am asking this question, coz my friend insisted me to behave as a girl, who don't have much knowledge abt sex.coz she told that gents will love if a girl behaves unknowingly abt sex.(i mean A-Z abt sex).
(am indian).
please advice me.
thanks in advance.
2006-12-13 02:12:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
am a very conservative and traditional girl.
2006-12-13 03:13:08 · update #1
Well let me tell you from my point of view, you shall be with your husband in the best way both get satisfaction, but is better if you keep few things for your self and develop them during the on-coming weeks, so like that you'll have a surprise for him almost every day. Perhaps remember that mostly of us like a lady in the street and a hot devilish in bed. Also if your communication is good among the 2 of you, talk tell him what you may like and explore things he may like, remember that we are mostly of the times activated thrw our eyes. Make a good combination of the last advices and I know you'll have him in the palm of your hand for a long time. Good luck and welcome to the matrimony life. Remember that many things in the movies are made just for entertaiment, don't really work in the real life, also remember that the best aphrodisiac is love.
2006-12-13 02:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your sake I hope its to a man you love. I also hope you let things happen naturally. There is no person that can tell you how to behave during sex. Let it be natural for you. You may find you don't like it. You should really talk to your future husband about it. Watching sex scenes is nothing like the real thing. It is different for every person. I just hope that the 2 of you find out what works best for both of you. It can be a great thing in a marriage as long as the both of you get along very well. It will be horrible if you don't. The first time will probably hurt because you haven't experienced it before. If he is a good man he will take it nice and slow to try and make sure you are not in much pain. The apin should subside over time. The first is almost always the most difficult to get through. Whatever you do talk about it afterwards and don't be surprised if he falls asleep.
2006-12-13 10:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Joey R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no certain way to behave, it depends on what each of you enjoys. Remember, the enjoyment of sex is for you also.
I'm a married guy, and we don't always have sex the same way each time, to do so would get boring after a while. I suggest you change things up once in a while, like what you wear to bed, or wear nothing sometimes. See if your husband likes to role play, and tell him things you want to try. These things are not weird, they are just very personal things between a husband and his wife.
2006-12-13 10:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Big Rick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you asked for male advice, but I just want to say that you have to know your husband. If he is very conservative or traditional, you may not want to act very experienced. If he is more liberal or modern, he may appreciate your knowledge and suggestions. I'm sure you know this part, but DO NOT act like the people on the internet. Those people are actors. Real people do not have sex like porn stars. That stuff is exaggerated for the camera. Good luck to you, and way to go being a virgin until marriage.
2006-12-13 10:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by elvenfaerieenigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question. Make sure you are well bathed and have your teeth brushed properly before engaging in sex. My advice is to act as if you know everything about sex and if he suggests something that you do not want to do, tell him no that way is wrong or does not work right. That way you will be in control of the situation and not him. He will respect you more and your life will be smoother.
2006-12-13 10:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should react as you would with any first experience. Whether riding a roller coaster for the first time, eating a pizza, jumping into water etc. You have been honest with yourself and your mate so far, why change now? Do what comes natural to you, and react to the feeling honestly.
2006-12-13 10:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by steeple54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it can't be an act. You have to do whatever is natural to you. if you don't neither of you will be truly comfortable. You can always act later on if he wants you to, but the fist time needs to be natural. You will have to wait and see how you feel. It is totally different than watching it on the Internet.
Don't act, do what feels good and natural- Good Luck and have fun!!!!
2006-12-13 10:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pretend because sooner or later, he will find out whether you're knowledgeable or not in that aspect. Be yourself and it would come naturally.
2006-12-13 10:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretending is a great way to start a new life. Dont you agree?
2006-12-13 10:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jomtien C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do what comes naturally and your sex life will improve and grow as your marriage does
2006-12-13 10:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by hankygagher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋