OK....so..In short terms...I got 2 guys...they both gave me a promise ring..they both love me...ones in school one is not...they both claim to really love me...I dated them both(at different times)..and one I dated for almost a year off n on and the other I dated for like a month..but I think I love them equally...but I kno somewhere in my heart I love one more than the other..but I been waiting forever and I still dont kno who to choose...its so confusing and i kno they wont be waiting around forever..who do i pick?
2006-12-13 01:52:48 · 10 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from both of them for a set amount of days or weeks while you think it through. . . . . .You will know when you have been apart from both. . .Make it clear the you need X days away. Be prepared for a flower delivery, men go to flowers when they have been bad.
2006-12-13 01:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer Lu22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty young and have a whole life in front of you.
Just because someone gives you a promise ring doesn't mean you have to spend the rest of your life with them.
What you want now may not be what you want when your older. Take your time and let life happen.
Trust me, I went with the first one who gave me a ring (and a baby) and was in a very abusive relationship for 10 years! I am now married for a 2nd time to a wonderful man who was nothing I would have picked in school.
Again I say, take your time, enjoy life and there will be time for all this later.
Good luck to you! :)
2006-12-13 10:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by renee m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. If you cant choose between them then they BOTH arent what you're looking for. Give them a break and let them both go and get on with their lives and find someone you like and respect enough to only have one on the go at once.
2006-12-13 09:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u already mentioned that u liked one more than the other right so why are u confused, if u still are confused think with whom u get along well and is at peace,better listen to ur head.
give it a rest for a week or so, then u can decide clearly.
hope this helps!!
2006-12-13 09:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to follow your heart cause it's really important to kno how that you feel w/ that person cause you love it with the other person better then the other
2006-12-13 10:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by sexylady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP SISTER!!! this isnt a game your playing... these are real people with real feelings your'e dealing with...
you need to look at yourself first and decide what you really want, and then look at who makes you happiest with regards to what you are looking to achieve...
then you need to be honest with both of them and tell them whats been going on... hang on, if you tell them both now, the one who hangs around after hearing how u'v played them both should be the one you choose...
2006-12-13 09:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by cherry-o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one would hurt more if you saw with another woman? The one that hurts the most is your choice.
2006-12-13 09:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by No 1.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart baby... Go with the one you think is mature and the one you think would be responsible in the future!
2006-12-13 10:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by smallebabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick whichever one you are most comfortable with and trust the most.
2006-12-13 09:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no probs... Normal.. Do not hurry... Just chose one you love more...
2006-12-13 09:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋