if you are sleeping with someone other than your partner then you clearly don't like them as much as you thought you did any way. why not just leave them. why take them through the emotional kick boxing rink of cheating on them? i just want to know the real reasons.
2006-12-13 01:41:12 · 12 answers · asked by LAUREN V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The real reasons? Men or women...is that there is gray matter. Its not a black and white answer. There is confusion involved. The fear of leaving some one but regretting it later. Its sometimes just for fun. Orto spice up your relationship. Sometimes people are just sleeze bags and have no care in world other than theirs. There is no "REAL" black and white answer.
2006-12-13 01:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by ladie_eclipse 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I see this question posted all the time. There are many reasons but the main one is that he obviously doesn't respect you or the vows you both took when you got married. Cheaters are very selfish. Men have many excuses...they say that they are not getting enough at home, tired of being with the same person, blah blah blah...lame excuses. A mature man that loves and respects his wife and their marriage will not cheat.
Just to add to this: its not just men...women cheat too...but I know that you are speaking on your situation so that is why I just referred to men.
2006-12-13 01:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kokolicious06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters don't ever expect to get caught. Men r feeding their egos when they do cheat. Usually it's not their "fault", they r overcome with a creature much lovelier than their present mate and she knows exactly what to say to married men and is a professional seductress in luring married men to their downfall. She is called the Lilith, a succubus. Once she has done her damage she spits them out and moves on to another man to prey on, and the cycle continues. Men are just more gullible than women in the seduction realm.
2006-12-13 01:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read that men cheat because they can live out their fantasies but still be respectable when they get home. They don't have to worry about keeping a score of who took out the trash, etc.
2006-12-13 01:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if this is the right answer or not.i dont know why men do this.i was in this type of problem.i think men do it because theyknow you will be there and they are not by themself.men dont want to be a lone.ther want us whem they what us .so they think it is best to have 2 or 3 women a once so that way they will never be alone.
2006-12-13 01:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by janet k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ther are many reasons for cheating. Why do women do it is another way of answering your question. Same reasons.....Not enough love, not right kind of love, not physically attracted and so forth.
2006-12-13 01:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason why women cheat ...
I'm not a cheater and would never cheat, but be aware that women cheat JUST as much as men do.
2006-12-13 01:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
dishonest fairly has more desirable to do with the Cheater really than the Cheat-ee - some egos have a hollow that they attempt to fill- and subconsciously or consciously they sense entitled to more desirable interest, affection, confirmation... It has no longer some thing to do with love- this is fairly more desirable about self-loathing, and perceived desires as against really desires. at the same time as adult males or women cheat- they understand this is incorrect, and this is incorrect because hurting somebody else is under no circumstances reliable for your self. some human beings stay in a deeper state of denial than others. they'd rationalize dishonest by using telling themselves that they deserve tru love or happiness- yet both one in all those start up from interior of. Love is a call- so is happiness, and also you'll distract your self with new human beings or reviews, yet ultimately you seize as a lot as your self and then you ought to start up all throughout back or restoration the concern.
2016-10-18 05:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you here yourself say why, it is because you giving him sex. You are meeting one of his basic needs. The other person may be meeting another one of his needs. Don't sell yourself short, get out. Hopefully, you're not married!
2006-12-13 01:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Red Diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same as women they are just no good dishonest people who have no real love for anyone bar themselves.they think its ok to have the best of both worlds.
2006-12-13 01:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋