my gurl said that we were moving to fast..she said that she was to young to make that kinda commitment..shes 14 tho i understand that..we didn't break up so, i guess im still in good shape..i just don't know what to do now?? help!
2006-12-13 01:38:59 · 18 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
haha..but iono..im kinda worried shes gonna leave me now :(
2006-12-13 01:42:41 · update #1
Hey, 14 is an ok age to get married at! If Your AMISH and it's 1827.
2006-12-13 04:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by stacie b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the hell were you engaged to a 14 yo? Tho I'll give her big ups for being mature enuff to know that she was too young to make that committment. You don't give your age, but my guess is you're around the same age give or take a couple of years.
You need to slow your roll! You will both want to experience life a little, go to college, travel, make some money, before settling down.
2006-12-13 02:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Survivors Ready? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well first she is way too young...second I pray you two have waited. She is still a child, she needs to grow and learn to be a women before she can ever be your wife. A good age to be thinking about marrage is 24 and up...till then you have no experienced life yet. Focus on the two of yours education...this is so important. Don't rush life, life will go fast enough, don't worry...take on day at a time. Good luck to the two of you...jenn
2006-12-13 01:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by Army Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is wait 10 years and marry at 24!! You have a whole life ahead of you so don't try to fast forward. 14 is WAY to young.
2006-12-13 01:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by ashizz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is way to young for her to be engaged! How old are you? That is moving to fast to commited for the age she is, she still have alot to go through in life before she needs to be tied down!
2006-12-13 01:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Sweet Pea*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude.. She is 14... Who are you Jerry Lee Lewis? Your scaring the poor girl. Nobody at that age knows if they want to be married. THey are just trying to find who they are. She is in High School. Let her get an Education, She might want to be with other guys. Dont tie her down. Let her be. If she breaks up with you... So be it.
2006-12-13 02:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Brown Eyed Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is to young for that kinda commitment. even if she did, she might regret it later. they usually do. when u reach legal adult age, u can do stuff u couldn't do before, ie; drink,smoke, date,sex,drive, get it? they will want to exsperience these things when they have the greenlight usually!! beware, and don't be so fast to rush into something yoourself, theres a whole world out there waiting to be discovered!!>???
2006-12-13 01:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old you are...but she is definitely too young for that committment. Be her boyfriend for now. Enjoy having fun...but dont pressure her into anything, she is totally right. Slow down and let her grow up...as you should to provided you are her age.
2006-12-13 01:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ask Michael Jackson
2006-12-13 01:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by skullmaniac16 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Matt just respect her wishes! Women find that very attractive when men just seem so understanding
2006-12-13 01:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by smallebabe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋