i lik two guys and one of them hugs me every day. the other says that im more beautiful than an angel above. they both have told me they love me, so im confused which to go for. somebody please please help!
2006-12-13 01:15:18 · 30 answers · asked by emu2013 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm. When a guy says he loves you outside of a relationship, mentally exchange the words with "I fancy you and kinda care for you, but not actually in love with you because I don't know you well enough". In other words, they're just buttering you up.
One of them hugs you. One of them tells you how beautiful you are. Is this all you have to go on!? I could be a prostitute and have the same things said to me and they would mean the same thing- absolutely nothing.
Who's the nicer guy? Who do you bond with more? Who's company is more fun? Who makes you laugh? Who makes you smile? Who can make you feel special without resorting to cheap words or a crafty careless hug? These are the real questions!
Whichever guy you choose to go with, make sure you have a no-tolerance policy with flirting from the other guy or it'll cause trouble. Stay friends and ignore this cheesy chat-up line stuff. I have some great one liners
"Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?"
"Your eyes are like diamonds"
"You have such a beautiful smile"
etc. And I'm a girl who don't know you chatting to you over a computer. Adoration is cheap! Don't let flattery be the basis for a relationship! :)
Good luck!
2006-12-13 01:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem but they were girls. THey both thought i was the man of their dreams and I thought the same thing about them BOTH. It was incredibly hard but I pcked the one that made more sense to go out with. Your love will grow with either on of them and one of them my work out better than the other but you can tell until you get into it with them. Think about availability and think about all the things liek how close you live to them and how oftne you will be able to see them etc. I hope you make the right decision but im sure whoever you choose it will work out.
2006-12-13 01:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Male16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I,m guessing you are still in your teens. There is no need to decide on either of these guys. Guys always tell girls they love them, though it might be real nice to hear, they are just trying to put the moves on you. Just date and dont let flattery rule. There actions are what will count in the end. So dont be confused, just look in the mirror and agree with them that your beautiful, if one of them truly loves you that guy will still be waiting
2006-12-13 01:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,that's a tuff decision,you should go with the one your age though,because the older guy might be telling all that stuff to you to get in your pants. It seems like the guy your age would be more suitable for you anyway. Besides,the guy that is your age tells you how he feels,and SHOWS you by hugging you. If someone really loves you they would not just tell you.
Good Luck~!
2006-12-13 07:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i'm walkin in your shoes but..... you cant ask ppl for that when your the only one that can decide who is the best! but look i too am stucl between two guys and its pretty hard! just like study them real close and make sure you know exactly who you really think is the most honest and worth you making this big decision!!!!! this is all you baby, you will find out soon. who knows, you might even find a new one who is better then both of them!
2006-12-13 01:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are confused, you should not choose yet between the two of them.
Continue dating both of them (you must not lie to them, however, or you could lose both of them.)
Just be honest with them. Tell each of them you like him, but you have been dating another guy as well that you like also. Tell both of them that right now you don't want to be forced to choose one or the other. Tell both that you will make the decision as soon as you possibly can, and you only want to be honest right now. I know they won't like hearing this, but both of them have to respect you for being honest with them.
Good luck!
2006-12-13 01:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by peekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one is more sincere? Which one do you feel safest with?
Can you picture yourself spending the rest of your life with either one? If not Choose neither and let that be that it is that simple.
Tell them both you want to be merely mutual friends until you get to know them better and that you do love them but not that way atleast not yet.
2006-12-13 01:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to see which one is more sincere. if they're both sincere and their friends have told you that they like you like the way your thinking then you might have to just go with your instincts or just pick whoever is hotter. after chosing don't just end the friendship that you had with the other guy. it's better to keep them both as friends in the long run if they're eachother's friend.
2006-12-13 01:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by mexicanabeibi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the worst thing you can do is have sex with them. Just ask them both what their goal is when it comes to you. The best answer date him. But wait the second best keep him as a rebound incase the "Best" is not the best.
2006-12-13 01:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by jaylee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one who called you an angel. This shows he isnt obsessed with sex. The guy who hugs you probably is. The latter guy seems to be more romantic and genuine. You'll be happier with him.
2006-12-13 01:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by packerswes4 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋