Jealousy, what should i do?

Question

Is it wrong for me to be jealous that my gf has been with more people than me? If so what should i do?

Answer 1

Don`t be, that is in the past, move on

Answer 2

It isn't wrong just a bit misguided. Life isn't a competition. Who are you jealous of? The guys she's been with or her that she's managed to get more action than you?
Ask yourself that.
If it's one of those tedious male/female things of "my girlfriend must be the perfect virgin", then yea, I'd say it's pretty silly and it's time to go out and see life for what it is rather than buy in to someone elses idea of how people should behave.
What if you are the one with more experience? Then is that ok? If it is then you have double standards and aren't behaving logically.
You have some questions to ask yourself because you're going to get the world and his wife giving you "smart" replies and answers but the bottom line is, you need to do some thinking for yourself.
If you have double standards, then you need to ask yourself why you do.

Answer 3

You shouldn't be jealous, but you should be cautious. I hope you have made her get blood tests. I know it might sound crazy, but you have to be safe. There are so many more diseases out there than there ever has been before and you need to protect yourself. After you find out if she is clean, then consider yourself lucky. She can show you what to do it you don't know. Don't be jealous, look at it like a sex lesson. The more you have, the better you will become. Thank you.

Answer 4

Why the hell are you worried? That's all in the past!
Talking about her ex to you is a great sign, she believes you. She has fate in you that you can take the story well.
If the guy is your best mate, yes, you should be worried and jelous, but if you don't even know him at all, don't bother.
Just listen to her story, and don't show that much of jealousy.
Girl's jealousy is cute, guy's are not.
It's a huge turn off for me.

Answer 5

It's not wrong, just immature. Figure that by being with those other people, she knows what she wants for herself more than before...and she chose you! Any amount of growth she got from them can only benefit your relationship. If she talks about them all the time, that's a different story.

Answer 6

Well just try and get it out of your mind it does not matter.What should matter to you is the present ant not the past and also the future and that is just all iif you ask me.Am not sayind you can't talk about your past,but i think you should just talk about it brfiefly

Answer 7

Yeah...that's nothing to be jealous of..infact, why would you want to know how many she's been with. The question should be, were you consistant in using protection.

Answer 8

First off grow up, jealousey is just another word for inner doubt, most people have a passed, their life did'nt just start because you just met them, your feelings are not wrong there just confused, I wish you all the best.

Answer 9

why are you jealous? it doesnt mean anything. and its in the past. the best thing you can do is get over it and realise she's with you now and the ppl your girl has been with have made her into the girl she is today.

Answer 10

Sleep with enough people to catch up to her in a very short space of time then everything is even.

Answer 11

Yes, why should you be jealous? If she's was a skank before she met you what's the problem? Sorry but you asked. In all seriousness, it shouldn't really be a problem as long as she practiced safe sex because you don't want to be picking anything up!