my son think that me and my mother is always going to be there no matter how bad he treat us i have to tje end of my rope. he is abusive to my mother and me he want work and he want go back to school are nothing what can i do to help him i don't want to call the law but i feel i have no choice.
2006-12-13 01:04:16 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you are there for him if you put a stop to it right away. If he treats the people he loves like this how does he treat the rest of society.
Tough love! I would do what ever necessary, even call the police. Look at that television show Judge Mathis he was out of control and his Mom called the police, he turned out good ,with the necessary kick in the ***. Your son no matter what his age, needs a serious reality check. He needs to be woken up, or it will probably just get worse.. Good Luck and Hope you find the Strenghth.
2006-12-13 01:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I know a program that might interest you I have send three of my out of control sons there and it help them a lot they finished high school and went on to colleges. The way I went was I sent them to BOOT CAMP. I would say look it up were you live they should be a big help in a big way.
2006-12-13 01:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by wenwen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first question to you would be "how old is your son," if he's over the age of 16 all I have to say is wipe your hands from him and live your life. Now if he's younger, his out of control should have been taken care of when he was much, much younger. Children just don't all of a sudden become out of control. It's a process that they will continue to go through showing you that the out of control is going to get worst.
2006-12-13 01:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by deedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him 30 days to find a job and then he has to leave. No excuses, no extensions because he can't seem to find one, he'll have to go to a shelter after that.
It's call tough love, and if you'd given out some of that a bit earlier in his life, it wouldn't be quite so "tough" now.
2006-12-13 01:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime tough love is the only answer how old is he tell him to get back in school and get a job or your calling the law and mean it give him a time line maybe if he sees your serious he straighten up
Good luck and God bless
2006-12-13 01:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Young and Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the Tough Love treatment. Send him to the correction center.
2006-12-13 01:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by Booooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to the Inspector of police of your jurisdiction and make them arrest him and request to keep him in police custody without lodging FIR. If he stays there 1 or 2 days he may come to senses. They beat in police custody. I think he needs that.
2006-12-13 01:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's probably hard....but sometimes tough love is just that...you should get the police involved....he cannot go around abusing people....he is abusing your mother now......he will marry and abuse his wife and kids
2006-12-13 01:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't exactly understand what you mean but you may try get your husband to talk to your son. if you think calling the law might help then do it. but remember don't ever give up on him coz he's your only son and he only got you. best luck.
2006-12-13 01:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and Mom have to put your foot down, or have him removed. How old is he? He sounds like a bully, stand up to him, and call the police if you have to. He brought that on himself.
2006-12-13 01:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋