It honestly isn't about you finding the right guy it is about making a choice on what you will and will not let someone do to you.....
Have you ever heard that expression,,,"A person will only do to you what you let them?" Well, sometimes in life we all make bad decisions,,,,and choices,,,and I think it is because we want things in life so badly sometimes,,,that we SETTLE for something, and we believe in what we are searching for soo much, that we convince ourselves that what something is,,,really isn't,,,in your heart and soul,,you know when a partner is cheating,,and not being faithful,,,,and because of our desire to want to feel loved and excepted, and appreciated,,,we SETTLE for a jerk,,,,because we love them,,,and know that they love us back??? RIGHT???? WRONG!!!!!!!!!
You need to find what it is that you want in life and in a relationship, and don't LOWER your standards,,,,do not SETTLE,,,just because someone doesn't cheat doesn't make them a goood B/.F, they could never cheat on you but they could hit you,,,like my kid's dad,,,,(WHICH I LEFT 3 YEARS AGO)
so never settle,,,keep in your heart and mind what you want,,, and hang on to that,,,,,everyone deserves to be treated with respect,and honesty,,,,and no one should be made to feel like they aren't good enough,,,,by being cheated on.....
When you find that special someone you will know,,,,and you won't need to ask this question again,,,,
I hope that you find someone to love and respect you,,,,and when it is meant to happen,,,,it will,,,,,,I promise,,,,,
GOOD LUCK TO YOU
AND I HOPE YOU FIND YOUR TRUE LOVE ONE DAY,,,,,DON'T RUSH IT,,,,JUST REMEMBER WHAT I HAVE SAID,,,DON'T SETTLE,,,BE PICKY,,,BE STRAIGHT FORWARD,,,AND DON'T BE INTIMIDATED BY A GUY WHO IS GOOD LOOKING, AND IS A FLIRT,,,,,IF HE CAN FLIRT WITH YOU HE CAN FLIRT WITH OTHERS,,,,AND THEY USUALLY DO........
GOOD LUCK
DAPHNE
2006-12-13 09:24:45
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