2006-12-13 00:48:58 · 34 answers · asked by soft 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been on both sides of that triangle....TRUST ME.... there is nothing but trouble ahead. It's easy for me to tell you to just walk away, but it is one of the hardest things to do. If you think you are falling for him now....just wait there is a much bigger fall ahead and it will hurt you more than the pain you think you will go through if you let him go NOW.
And remember if he is cheating with you on his wife now...he will have no problems cheating on you.
2006-12-13 01:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can cheat on his wife with u he then eventually will cheat on you. And that girl will post the same question as your self. Is the relationship just sexual or is it serious? if you both have true feelings for eachother, let him take care of issus such as separation, divorce. If you are falling for him let him know and see where it goes. Maybe, he's only with you for pleasure and does not want a divorce. Find out before making any decisions.
If he truly loves you and decides to start a relationship......... .. wait and give him some time to take care of his family issue. His wife deserves time and explanation as well.
2006-12-13 03:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by sunkist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you for coming between a husband and wife. You have the decency to walk away NOW and never look back.
And why would you ever fall in love with a man that you KNOW is an adulterer? Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-12-13 00:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm not judging you.. I did something similar myself once too. I completely fell for a guy who was already taken, but it's hard to keep that in mind when they're courting you, and sleeping with you. You should end it, because in my experience this kind of guy is incredibly charming, and incredibly insincere. He's cheating on his wife, which means he will most likey cheat on you should things miraculously move to the next level. He'll probably cheat on you if they don't. He's probably made all sorts of excuses for himself, but you have to recognise that they are EXCUSES. He shouldn't need excuses, if he is unhappy in his current relationship he should be honest with his wife and end it. He's not being honest, so what makes you think he'll be honest with you? Do you really want to be the other woman? I mean really, it can exciting and fun for a while, but when you really think about it, is that who you want to be? Do you want to end up the poor ignorant wife/girlfriend who doesn't know about his next other woman? I assume no, I assume you think somehow this can work out and you two will be happy together, but I promise whatever happiness you may find with him will only be temporary and illusionary. Go find someone who's emotionally available, honest, and sincere. Save yourself boatloads of heartache. If you're like me, you won't listen and you'll see this through to the tragic end, but I'm telling you from experience, leaving now may not be easy but it will only spare you inevitable pain and dissapointment.
2006-12-13 00:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping with a married is it worth it ? falling inlove for him ? Is he in love w/you more than his wife? Will he leave his wife for you? humiliation and heart ache is the out come mostly on sleeping w/ a married man If he will leave his wife for you, good luck I hope you will not hurt that bad as his wife did , when he cheated on you.What goes around,comes around,you are the best thing that ever happened in this world, don't give your self as a charity for a married( who is not have any.) He will not appreciate you at the end. You are only his gratification for free.
2006-12-13 01:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. I think you've had enough shame and judgment for one day - maybe a lifetime.
I think you asked because you are ready to get out.
The first thing, when we realize we have dug ourselves into a deep hole is to STOP DIGGING. You can worry about how to get out later.
For you, this means do not sleep with him again.
This is not hard. It requires no action from you. It simply requires that you take no action.
You can do this. I did.
2006-12-13 01:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop now before it gets to far and before you get hurt. I have been in this situation and its not good. You really think yall are both in love but you maybe but he maybe not be. I just found this out. To me Guys lie to get what they want. I have been a fool .
2006-12-13 00:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by whoohoo2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not sleep with him.. you know that things like this will surely happen.
take a shower and once you walk out from that door, dont ever look back and put in your mind 'i can do this.. i am strong'
that is one of the reasons why your brain is above your heart.. it is suppose to tell your heart how to handle things.
2006-12-13 00:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by labs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you can do. You can fall for him head over heals and marry him. Then some woman from yahoo answers can come along and make him cheat on you, take him away from you. :) Then come back and tell us how you feel.
2006-12-13 00:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, this guy is so using you! As soon as his wife comes home, out you will go. This guy is a loser and a jerk. He's lying to her, he's lying to you, and he's getting everything he wants. Dump him fast and never look back. His poor wife...
2006-12-13 00:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋