My ex broke up w/ me 2 months ago. A few weeks ago he messaged me and call me and told me to give him a call and that we should get together.
2 wks later I called. We went out and had a great time. At the end of the night he hugged me for a very long time. I started to cry. I looked up at him and he was teary. I asked if he was upset he said "a little". We hugged again. Then he looked at me and just said "Oh Sarah" and I said "Oh Mike" and we hugged again. He told me to call him anytime. I told him the same.
2 days later I msged him. He seemed receptive. I said I had a great time. He said we should get together again sometime. I said id love to and for him to let me know when he was available. He never messaged or called me back.
Any ideas why is he still into me or not?
2006-12-13 00:46:09 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not sure ...men in general are somewhat ....loose minded...mabye he just hasnt had the time...or mabye he just wont call....or something completely different..it really just depends on how things go between you two in the long run....little by little he'll come around more...what ever happened to you both it still has a grip on his mind....once that goes away you both will be fine......
2006-12-13 00:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by vincent17092003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he might be re-evaluating his feelings for u, and maybe the time away has made him realize how much he cares for u and misses u. The fact that he didn't just hook up with u for sex means that was not the purpose for contacting u. (which is a very good thing) Maybe he was just not ready for a commitment at the time and got scared. You have to remember too that friends sometimes have alot of influence in people's lives, so maybe when he did see u that night and he told his friends they may have been........."oh don't get involved with her again".........who knows for sure. He obviously cares for u, so take it very slow, u don't want to scare him away. Let him know that u are there for him at whatever speed he would like to take it because u care about him. Guys like to know they are not being pressured, that's very important to them. Good luck, I hope it all works out for u.
2006-12-13 09:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never said why yall broke up but if you think he still cares for you then you call him, he may be scared because he is the one that broke off the relationship. then again you could be a "comfortable" relationship, in other words he is lonely and maybe even confused about what he really wants,
the only way to resolve this for you and for him is to get together and talk about what you both want if you both want to try the relationship again then good luck but if not you could still be there for eachother as friends
2006-12-13 09:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by schally31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess would be that he isn't sure if he should try to get with you again.Obviously he still has feelings for you hence why he called you up like that. Right now he's probally trying to convince himself that he doesn't like you anymore but he does. Try calling him.
2006-12-13 08:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by Tea Fah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds very odd... Seems that there is something but he isn't sure what...
Forget about him and move on... Find someone else willing to get you their time and will respect you...
2006-12-13 08:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you da truth baby girl he just needs time to collect his feelins cause men hide them in many differnt ways!!! he likes you he's just scared that he will loose you again!!! give him time!!!
2006-12-13 08:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Problem Solver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes confused to whether he should go back out with you again or not. mixed feelings maybe?
2006-12-13 08:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's sleeping around and thats why he hasnt called.. he is a guy after all
2006-12-13 08:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when thy will post this move its sense nice
2006-12-13 08:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by sankaaaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋