I am a virgin and I am just curious what’s it like? And did you wait for someone you loved or just give in to anyone? Also what is better waiting for someone you love or just getting out there and have sex with anyone? I mean anyone you like and are attracted to that is.
2006-12-13 00:28:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As I lay on my bed, thinking about you, I feel this strong urge to grab you and squeeze you, because I can't forget last night.
You came to me unexpectedly during the balmy and calm night, and what happened in my bed still leaves a tingling sensation in me.
You appeared from nowhere and shamelessly, without any reservations, you laid on my naked body... you sensed my indifference, so you applied your hungry mouth to me without any guilt or humiliation, and you drove me near crazy while you drained me. Finally I went to sleep.
Today when I woke up, you were gone, I searched for you but to no avail, only the sheets bore witness to last night's events.
My body still bears faint marks of your enthusiastic ravishing, making it harder to forget you.
Tonight I will remain awake waiting for you...
... you damn mosquito
2006-12-13 00:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am 28 years old, and i am with my partner 15 years now. He is my first love and i wouldn't change a thing. We where going out a year and a half before we had sex and it was very strange but nice at the same time i new he was the one for me before we had sex. He has been the only one i have been with, people say i have missed out on experience but i don't think so because we respect each other more knowing that we were the only ones for each other and that is hard to find these days. I think you should wait until you are ready because it will mean something to you and you will always remember it, i am not saying wait until you are married. You will know when you are ready, so take your time in making your decision.
2006-12-13 09:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 16 and the first time i had sex was O.K the more you do it the better it gets thats the way i feel. I didnt wait for anyone special really i met this guy who was 20 and we dated about 2 weeks before we had sex. i think lifes to short to try to find the "perfact" anything. you should live while you have a chance to live because you never know what will happen tomorow. me and the guy broke up 3 weeks after we had sex but i dont regret it at all. it was one of the best things ever. im not saying you should be a whore or anything lol. but i think if your courious about it then you should try it.....
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2006-12-13 12:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by cockbite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited for the right person because I wanted it to be special. It was superb, on valentines day we went for a romantic meal at a top restaraunt and then we went to my house and spent the night exploring each others bodies. We made love so much that she found it hard to walk the next morning and she had to go to work ;)
Thats my experience but not everyone's the same, do you just want to get losing it out of the way or are you willing to wait for someone who will make it magical?
2006-12-13 08:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is enjoyable, very much. But I would like to advice you that the first time do it with a person who you real love and has show you that too loves you. The first day is too special not everybody could enjoy you virginity, only the special one, your LOVER. The person you wont forget in your life even if your relationship wont last.
2006-12-13 08:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mama A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that big a deal. I used to think it was and waited until I met my fiance (needn't have bothered cos I dumped him after 6 months). It depends on your relgious beliefs but just go for it. It will probably be a total let down your first time because you are building it up in your mind. Just make sure your first time is with someone who knows what they are doing (a bit more advice try with a guy who isn't too well endowed or will hurt more).
2006-12-13 08:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by Charlene 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who you do it with is your choice. not everyone turns out to be the one. why do you think so many ex-virgins are no longer with their first? i was in love, madly with my first, but i waited 'til i was 18 and he was patient (obviously screwing on the side)... but thats my own bad experience. i wont classify every guy according to one.
my first time was shockingly hot and kind of painful for about a minute. after that i was just numbed by shock coz i couldnt believe it was happening... thats why i came back the next day to feel it clearly once more. it was great! but looking back, the first time was rockers coz i felt so many sensations at the same time... ahhh, good ol virgin days.
2006-12-13 08:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by Reb Da Rebel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time was very mixed,yes i waited for someone i cared for, but lack of knowledge,fear etc all play a part in it.
i belive it is best to find someone you care about who cares about you and just slowly enjoy learning and realise that it will just get better and better as time goes on, don't expect too much the first few times, good luck xx
2006-12-13 08:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Redmuppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i waited until i got married. OMG it was fabulous! and stil is! Girl we had fun fun fun now and before - being inventive. Now that doesnt mean we didnt do anything - i mean you can get really creative here. LOL. But i wanted to wait.
My mother always said - you can do anything you want in life once you know you can take the responsibility it comes with.
2006-12-13 08:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by Trini Trixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 14 and it was with my ex who was 18 at the time. Yes, technically it is statutory rape but hey...whatever.
It hurts the first time cause youre breaking your hymen the first time you have sex so you'll bleed A LITTLE bit, not a lot of really worry about.
It was in my basement. my parents werent home and we were down there for over 4 hours..a lot of fun haha.
2006-12-13 08:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is more special when you care for the person instead of casually. I was 14. It sucked really. I didn't enjoy sex until after my son was born. I was almost 17, then my hormones exploded. But I really didn't enjoy the act until after that kid came. Don't know why I did it anyway, stupid I guess.
2006-12-13 08:31:26 · answer #11 · answered by jayndee13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋