he says he still loves me but just don't know if he can trust me
i really want him back
what can i do to make him trust me??
2006-12-13 00:24:32 · 24 answers · asked by Laura S 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i like other boys thats the reason he broke up with me
stupid or wot?
2006-12-13 00:32:59 · update #1
not do what you did to make him say what he did
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2006-12-13 00:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my.. curious.. what did you do that broke the trust.
There may not be a way to regain trust, other than just becoming trustworthy, again. Then making sure you are never caught in a deception, again.
I don't know, maybe its just time you both moved on, began new relationships with others, and realizing what was done wrong with this one, NOT doing it again.
Life is about learning from our mistakes, and the mistakes of others.. its also about forming relationships, and perhaps finding true love.
Enjoy the journey!
2006-12-13 08:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by sassy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in love with someone does not necessarily blind you from amiring other guys. The problem starts when you actually consider pursuing the relationship. On why he broke up with you, I think ur man just needed a reason to break up with you. Most men do that. Cowards!
2006-12-13 09:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi..
Hmm I'm sorry to say.. If he says that he loves you but he can't trust you then it will be difficult to get back with him..
If he really loves you then he should give you a chance.. if he doesn't then forget about him..
It's very though to be in relationship when one party or both have trust issue..
2006-12-13 08:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's got trust issues and very frankly he sounds he's not ready for commitements and he seems he wanna have some fun and not be tied down.The rest are all excuses,when a guy is serious he won't bring up excuses.He wants free liabilities.
If you wanna waste your precious time running behind him and waiting for him well then you know what you should be doing.
2006-12-13 08:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a guy who is clear headed and strong minded about his principles to be honest.
If you've done something on the side.. you might realise that some people won't put up with hurt or be devalued.
2006-12-13 08:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by Narky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you give him reason not to trust you? If so then you're at fault and nothing will make him change his mind. If you didn't give him any reason not to trust you then he's probably not worth it because nothing you do will change his small mindedness.
2006-12-13 08:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did you do to make him not trust you?
Sounds like an excuse on his part...time for you to move on
2006-12-13 08:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mama~peapod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that once the crack is there in a relationship its best to move on! not to try and patch it up!
Lets face every time you have an arguement from now on he will throw (whatever you did) back in your face!
if you live in the north email me! who know i might be able to hlp x
2006-12-13 08:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by Nigi-magic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't make anyone trust anymore than you can make anyone love you, ask him to sit down and discuss why he feels he can't trust you or if you already know deep down why, first admit it to yourself than to him. ask if there is a way forward but accept it if there isn't and learn from your mistakes. i wish you all the luck in the world xx
2006-12-13 08:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by Redmuppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can he trust you? Also be careful if he has doubts over you and being trusted because it could well be that he has cheated and pushing his guilt onto you.
2006-12-13 08:28:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋