Hello, thank you for your time. There is a girl who is a good friend of mine and whom I think is beautiful. Although we have known each other for about 5 months, I reall do like her though I don't think she knows. I was wondering if it would be okay for me to give her a Christmas present and maybe a card saying how I feel about her? Thanks!
2006-12-13 00:21:23 · 13 answers · asked by BigAl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes but try to know her love life first e.g call her for lunch, a drink-not alcohol,dinner or something so that you meet jst the two of you and speak out your heart to her.she will be ready to listen to you.the first impression of you will be shown here.always keep in contact with her then finally give her a suprise on chrismas by geting the card to her and a small present,think you will be headed the right direction,bt remember do not giv her breathing space,let everything happen in a flash to her.take her by suprise,i mean.
2006-12-13 00:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by shaq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i would not make it something very personal though, perhaps a card just saying how you appreciate her, and then i would try and give her a gift card to a clothing store and tell her to get something to wear when you take her out. this will pretty much insure a date as well as see if she likes you at all in that way depending on what she gets. just any idea, i am a pretty confident guy and therefore i would try this approach if you are not try it this time and see how you like it anyways
2006-12-13 08:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by cbearhalla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES... it is important u speak the truth from your heart, as it matter.. we are all humans and we r bound to like some one or the other coz we have feeling... So dnt waste time thinking
Go for it ...... and tel her ,coz may be (if )she is seeing u as just a friend and not more than that .. then u should feel bad and the same she shouldnt also... so tel her this also ..if u r buying a card for her...at the end include these words also...
I AM SORRY IF IT WAS A WRONG MOVE TO TEL U ABT MY HEART........ IF I SAID SOMETHING WRONG I AM SORRY.........
aND trust me it will work and she will like u the same way u like her...
2006-12-13 08:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by sueann_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have any idea how she feels about u?
if she appears to like u then yes u should give her a present and a card that tells her your feelings, but if she seems to like u as a friend and nothing more then no, forget the card
2006-12-13 08:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by zoey z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um....well, out of personal experience, I think that buying presents for a girl you like is REALLY bad kharma. Example: I bought a present for my girlfriend over the weekend, and that monday she broke up with me. You can try, but be careful about what you get her. You know, nothing too sensual or anything but don't get her like a pack of gum. Find that happy medium. Good Luck!
2006-12-13 08:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mehrunes Dagon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it'd be lovely for you to give her a present and a nice card, although I feel like you shouldn't get too heavy on your feelings for her--you should tell her yourself, face to face.
2006-12-13 08:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by smoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dun think u outta send her a present.. it might be intimidating to her.. send her a card..write simply n short.. and get her birthdate..so that u can send her a card or sms on her birthday..that'll be a start..
Good luck, bro!
2006-12-13 08:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,do it.Christmas is the best time of the year for that stuff.Good luck!
2006-12-13 08:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by cheerful_assassin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a card and please tell her how you feel. At least you would know if the relationship would go further.
2006-12-13 08:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by wizzygirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's okay. I can see nothing wrong.
2006-12-13 08:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by mared 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋