We are together for 5 years and last month I found out he's been dating a trany for 1 year. I'm kinda worried because we always had sex wihout condoms because I thought he was faithful. He always told me he never used condoms in his sexual relations so I suppose he's having unprotected anal sex with the trany too. I don't know what to do. Even knowing that he deceived me I still love him more than ever and I'd like to find a way to fix our relationship. How could I do that?
2006-12-13 00:20:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesnt sound ike you are his cup of tea..so I really dont think it matters much what you want.
2006-12-13 00:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Whoa, there. Before you have so much concern about "fixing" the relationship, go and get yourself tested for HIV. That has to be your main concern.
I would also recommend going to get some counselling to work on your self-esteem. Regardless of whether it's a tranny or another woman or man, you have to ask yourself why you would want to be with someone who has little regard for you.
If you are of the swinging type and are having sex with other people, then that is a different matter.
If you are in a relationship because you would like a monogamous relationship then, you need to sort out your feelings because you aren't going to get the relationship you want from this man.
Good luck and always use a condom in future if you do choose to stay with this man. Your health takes precedence over emotions, I'm afraid
2006-12-13 00:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by KD 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First get yourself an AIDS test. Then if you really must stay with him then insist on him using a condom. If he refuses then he has no respect for you and you are just a convenient person to sleep with when his other love is not available. Leave him. When you have the results of the AIDS test then tell him what you have done and when he asks for the result do not tell him, whatever it turns out to be. This will scare him big time as he sounds an arrogant piece of work.
Please god that you are tested negative and have yourself a lovely Christmas.
2006-12-13 00:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend is messing around with a tranny, then he's gay. Leave that fool and find you a man who has no time to mess around on you like your current boyfriend. He'll have the last laugh when the dust settles. LOL!!!!!!!
2006-12-13 00:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by brian 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realy love you want to be with him stil?? 1st id go get yourself checked out, the fact hes been having unprotected sex with you and someone eles means he cant truly care for you!!!
i no it mite be hard but hes obviously not the one for you, he dosent no what he wants, so move on and leave him and his trany alone!
somethings cant be fixed and i think this is one of them
2006-12-13 00:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by donna c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him a nice suprise. Get yourself a really huge strapon and take him anally with it. Make him feel really abused and when he's crying on the floor afterwards tell him thats how he made you feel. If you decide to dump him at least you'll have a laugh at his expense before hand.
2006-12-13 00:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hes always going to be cheating on you im afraid, dont be a doormat and find someone else otherwise you might be living a very miserable life.
2006-12-13 00:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by herbal ashtray 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For God Sake Girl get shot of him and get yourself tested! Also he's not thought about you at all by going with the trannie and risked your life by going un-protected.
Hope you'll be ok!
2006-12-13 00:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by Cruz 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Did he use the carrot?? (you know what I'm talkin' about!)
This person asks a lot of strange questions!!
Must be bored!
2006-12-15 03:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by P!ss Ant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...I'm not to sure how to fix it but i can tell you know i wouldn't be with him anymore. it wouldn't matter how much i loved him and wanted to be with him that's just plain out nasty. and its going to make you look like the dumb one trying to work everything out because then when people start finding out that he did that, they are going to look at you first not him....embarrassing!
2006-12-13 00:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by Missing YOU! 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well babe get rid off him he a waste of space tell him you gonna go away for a few months to think what you gonna do
2006-12-14 09:17:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋