When you are not rich, educated and good looking.
You have money just for yourself as you are serving ns.
All you have is sincerity which is not seen by anyone. Answers pls. Thank you.
2006-12-12 23:59:38 · 16 answers · asked by WankidaL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone for the prompt reply.
I'm not picky but if i can't just possibly like any girl right?
Errm, i like this girl, she's 23 and i'm 19. Any chance of me getting her?
Facing the music, i don't think so.
Unless someone give me a perfect answer.
And can you elaborate more with regards to personality.
Thank you.
2006-12-13 00:08:35 · update #1
patience....but you are picky. Have you tried single groups on yahoo or at a church?
2006-12-13 00:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by StaR'in 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being rich, educated and handsome is not a prerequisite for a relationship!
Girls like charisma, charm, warmth, humour, compassion and good spirit. There are some shallow people out there who walk into a bar, see a good-looking guy and think "I love him"- which is pretty pathetic. They'll start dating, have nothing in common, he may turn out to be egotistical and given the shallowness of how they got together- a relationship based only on looks- they usually end up hating eachother/cheating and then splitting up.
You can either find the girl of your dreams by chance or by socialising. Being shy and quiet and expecting some awesome girl to walk into your life is pretty unrealistic so you have to get out there and find someone.
Many people ask this same question as you are asking. But why don't you ask yourself the same question. If two girls walked into your room right now- one gorgeous and one average- who would you want to be with?
You can only expect of others what you can achieve yourself.
Get out there, come out of your shell a bit more, be a nice guy and you'll find a nice girl. What do you do that is 'nice'? Do you do anything unselfish- charity work? Caring for animals? Caring for the homeless? The elderly? Deep down, are you just as boring as everyone else who sits around watching TV scratching their backsides? Why would a girl choose you before Mr. Moviestar if under the skin, you're both dull and spiritless?
Seriously, be a better person. Learn to shine, learn to love life and wear a smile on your face. Be friendly, understanding and don't go round with "I WANT A GIRLFRIEND" taped to your forehead- you'll attract the wrong kinda girl.
2006-12-13 08:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by midsojo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finding a nice girlfriend is not about where she is you just have to wait and meet some people. Eventually if you find a nice girl it won't matter about money looks. If they are a true and nice girl it matters about the way a guy will treat a girl and mainly if you can show her a good time! There are many girls out there that are looking for a special someone to cherish you just have to find the right ones.
2006-12-13 08:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by ali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are u in school because girls at school don't exspect much if you look all right, if not than lower your standards theres billions of girls out there be mor open talk mor freqently with them, or go get a bank loan get a job to pay it back and a women needs a man to work thats all that has to be said about that. with loan money stat dressing hott do ur hair party a little with your new job get one close by or save some money put down payment down tjhe car dont have to be hott if the driver has it gion on. and than you have more of a chance to get the girl u want and desire but if i was you i would widen my search don/t settle yet play around with them until u meet ms. right.
2006-12-13 08:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by babylove 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend have faith,do the best that you can with what you have and know in your heart that there is someone out there for you.When the time is right she will walk in to your life and all this anguish will become the past.God works in mysterious ways,just be true to yourself and pray with all your heart.Your prayer will be heard my friend,God bless.Merry Christmas and a happy New Year....Know what you want and make yourself into the guy that the person would want and when you are ready you will attract such a person into your life..Hang in there...Riz>...
2006-12-13 08:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Shalimaar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well are you tight? Money wise? It sounds like you are.Girls like guys who spend a little money on them. How old are you? Don't worry, I thought I was never gonna find the love of my life then he was right under my nose the whole time. We just got married about 2 weeks ago! good luck (it didnt take me long and neither will it you Im only 20)
2006-12-13 08:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by moodymouse54 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well bro,this is how things happens when it comes to girls.its good adn by the sounds of it,you are a guy that has already tried heaps but still failed. considering you have what it takes,all you have to do,is get yourself around girls,like hang out with them,even with a bunch of friends to a movie or in town.it only takes one girl to know who you really are and thats your spark. then just continue doing what you do.dont focus soo much on just one girl,be general first with your girls,then pick yours.after that, focus on just one and reduce on the others.if you dont,then your girl,and everyother girl,is going to think that your a playa and thats really bad. if you have persisting problems,email me.i'll help you out.
2006-12-13 08:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by 50 cent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not superficial type of person, it will take some time to find a woman who is just as genuine as you are.
Be considerate, be yourself, and most of all, don't settle just so you're not alone.
2006-12-13 08:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of bad ones. got to live and learn. takes time to find the perfect girl in the sea of bad ones
2006-12-13 08:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by neon_freak_95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a nice and open heart. Friendly mannerisms, and lots of love.
2006-12-13 08:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋