Hi there! I need serious help from some experienced folks out there!! Just tell me, how should I be when I chat with my crush (he doesn't know I've a crush on him)??? I mean the 1st conversation was soooo.. boring!!! It was all the technical side (school stuffs). I don't wanna make it so obvious either! Pls. help!!
2006-12-12 23:36:57 · 13 answers · asked by doglover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sure he know that u r have that crush on him
no one can ignore a girl
2006-12-12 23:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a mental note of things you hear others say about him and then one day say "Oh Hi, I believe you like ........... (whatever), wow, that is a coincidence, cos I like it too!" or try "Hey, did you hear about .................... what do you think of it?
Besides, school stuff is a good ice breaker anyhow. It is at least a) something in common and b) something you know about.
You could even arrange a get together with some friends and either say to him "Hey, me and some friends are going for a milkshake on Saturday to the Mall, wanna join us?" or get one of your friends to invite him and then start chatting to him about stuff when you are all in the group. It is sometimes easier to talk to someone in a group situation. You can then suggest that seem as you all had such a good time, why don't you go somewhere else the next Saturday. Then, on the Saturday, arrive alone and tell him sorry but no-one could make it, does he wanna cancel or go do something anyway. If he cancels, you know he doesn't want to be alone with you. If he doesn't - well, then he wants to spend time with you alone, and then you work on it from there! Good luck!
2006-12-13 07:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk about what interests you, whether its animals, sport, reading, music, friends whatever, you usually find some sort of common ground between those subjects, ask him what he is upto? how he's getting on at school, which subject he hates blah blah blah. Just let him know that there are simalarities between you guys and make him feel as ease by being calm and easy to talk to.
Dont think that guys are ahead of us in anyway, it is more than likley that he is even more nervous than you are. Dont over analyize things, which we girls do, we think too much.
Try to relax and have fun, once he sees that you are having a nice time 9 times out of 10 he will feel the same
Good Luck
2006-12-13 07:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by carrienicholson23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you have a crush on him. But since both of you are still schooling, it is better to remain as normal friends and concentrate on your study. This is most important because once you miss this study chance, time will not rewind back for both of you and you will be wasting your time in school.
2006-12-13 07:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what lover boy likes, or find something you have in common. I talked to my crush real nice when I found out we had similar taste in music. Just chat, don't be scared darlin'. Look him in the ye and show that you do care what he's sharing. And chime in. Don't let him run the conversation.....okay that's it for me.
Cheers love
2006-12-13 07:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Louis Quatorze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring up a topic that can lead to a conversation about feelings, like ask him what happened in his last relationships, and what things he looks for in a girl, then i guess he'll ask u the same..and there's ur topic, u take it from there :)
2006-12-13 07:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys knows how to read us girls believe me, he knows that you have a crush on him. just be friendly and nice to him.
2006-12-13 07:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your topics go to something more interesting like ask him whom among our classmates you find attractive?
2006-12-13 07:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by AmandaNikolah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. And be a bit more talkative (besides school stuff)
2006-12-13 07:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥OzZ♥~™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey:girl
I know what your going through but just
go up to him and ask him you never
knowif he likes you back.
2006-12-13 07:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by brooke_noel_martin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋