When I was in kindergarten I like this girl a lot, we are classmates, then in grade school she moved to other city. I had a chance to see her when she came back for our school foundation day so we had communications again, but then I have to go someplace else work work, still had her in my mind, it's been 20 yrs now since kindergarten and I want to move on with my life, but she keeps popping in my dreams, what do i do?
2006-12-12 23:36:36 · 12 answers · asked by jon_yao 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find her! Two things could happen...1) She is married or in a serious relationship already; therefore, you have no choice but to move on. 2) She is single and you can tell her how you feel and how you have felt the last 20 years and maybe she has felt the same way and there you go, your dreams have come true. Or maybe she hasn't felt that way but seeing you now has sparked up something for her and you can go from there.
Good Luck and I wish you all the best!
2006-12-12 23:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Track her down and get some closure. She's probably a big disappointment by now anyway.
If not, consider that she's an icon/archtype that represents something from your youth and isn't really a person in your dreams at all. It's usally something or other to do with not feeling as accepted as an adult or something.
Maybe a psychic link if you wanna tread way out there.
But what do I know? I'm just a net nudie with an opinion.
2006-12-12 23:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by misspearlnecklace 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have always seen this girl as a crush & since you never really had an intimate relationship with her, your mind still feels that there is an unfinished chapter of your life which needs to be dealt with. I suggest that you confront her & tell her how you have felt in the past & that you mean to rid her from your mind. Im sure that once you do that, you will start to forget.
2006-12-12 23:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by Claude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most obvious answer:
Fill your dreams with someone, or something else
get more into your own life, be a happy bachelor, make your life so awesom that it would be take a very special girl to make you give up bacelorhood.
School, work, hoobbies, friends, there's lots of things to do
and, it'll make you more attractive to the ladies cause you're not a home-body, haha.
2006-12-12 23:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by antsam999 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the question is true that the teen girls are age 16-18 then i'd say it aint weird at all. it's normal to be attracted to a person 5years younger or 5years older.but if teen girls 13-15 are included i'd say stay away from the neighbor's window &start looking for a job
2016-05-23 17:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by Shirley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has these sort of relationships. 30 years ago, when I lived in London, a girl came from Germany with her college trip and I fell in love with her. I still think of her even though we only saw each other for a week. I think it's because nothing could happen--but that something wonderful could have happened, if the circumstances had been different--that I still think, dream and wonder about her. I think it is the same for you.
2006-12-12 23:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by darestobelieve 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we all liked someone in kindergarten but they change u may not like her now
2006-12-12 23:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find her, meet her, see where she is at in life.
a reality check---- she's married/not the same/not your dream
or a dream come true!
good luck!
2006-12-12 23:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Netty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woah 20 years ? Talk to a therapist perhaps, this seems abit way over anyone's experience to help.
2006-12-12 23:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
no one can forget a girl
how can u dare to forget the most important thing in our life
2006-12-12 23:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋