is it wrong to meet my ex boyfriend for sex? we were together for 2 years and broke up around a month ago. we both adults and still enjoy each others company. but i dont want another relationship with him, i dont think he does either.
2006-12-12 23:14:17 · 33 answers · asked by lulu x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as long as you both know where you stand and both want the same thing then i dont see a problem with it.as long as you are both single
2006-12-12 23:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you can have sex without committment from either side and are both comfortable and willing i dont see anything wrong with it, but it really isnt a way to move on with other relationships or get over your ex. Remember that the casual sex stops when he meets someone else.
2006-12-12 23:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Gale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just remember that he is your Ex for a reason, and if he would be okay with you to just having casual sex I would be concerned, why didn't he establish that type of relationship from the start. Just dont get your feelings hurt and know if another woman comes around you will be the other woman, or you will get left out in the cold.
2006-12-12 23:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by PNUTT87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't want another relationship with him because you're still in a relationship with him. It's only wrong if either one of you is married and the spouse dosen't know what's going on. Aside from that, you and I don't have a relationship either, so how about you come over and sex with me!!
2006-12-12 23:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be the safest way to go. You already know what you're getting. You already have most of each other's germs. If neither is in danger of falling back into a relationship I'd say you have the ulitmate F***buddy.
Cool.
2006-12-12 23:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by misspearlnecklace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that there is anything wrong with it as long as neither of you are in a relationship now. HOWEVER, with all the past baggage, a simple FWB thing wont exist and old feelings are likely to creep in.
2006-12-12 23:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a very personal thing and you want to meet him just for sex? Are you sure what you are doing or are you in your right sense of mind? Of course it is very wrong. What if you got pregnant or other disease after that?
2006-12-12 23:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a habit and comfort zone. Enjoy sex with your ex without all the fulltime relationship requirements is what I say!
Just make sure when you hook up with a new bloke you end it totally with the ex though!
2006-12-12 23:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if its a good idea. Somewhere along the line, one of you is going to want to get back together, and the other may not want to. Also, I really think it holds both of you back from properly moving on.
2006-12-12 23:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by hell_ova_arse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship if that is the condition that its only for pleasure not pain then not its not wrong.But it would be wrong if you are doing it for pleasure & he has a different expectations. It would also be wrong if the two of you or even one of you are committed to somebody else (relationship wise).
2006-12-12 23:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by noodles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry On Regardless.
Interesting that you don't associate sex with a relationship after just one month 'apart'.
2006-12-12 23:56:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋