whats the best way to tell ur boyfriend that u spends too much time wit his friends?

Question

..........that u wan to spend more time wit him?
my bf came home from canada for our sake and ever since he got home he has been spending more time wit his friend instead of me and it hurts my feelings.
the other nite we had a fight about it. i dont kno what to do. i want to spend time wit him cause im afraid if i dont ill lose him and i dont want that to happen cause we just got 2gether

Answer 1

sit him down and tell him u fell alil neglected,hold his hand while saying it cuz he will know i still care and b gentle wit wat u say,don't sob tillu hav to reach for kleenex r nything cuz this si a delicate issue as guys always seem to b torn b/w frends and their lovers,like wise with girls.so good luck then=)

Answer 2

Your boyfriend came home for "our" sake???? Who is "our"? Do you have children? Makes alot of difference!!! If you have no children, then let go girlfriend!!!!!! People need friends they enjoy being with. It depends on what activities they are doing. Guys like to hunt, fish, sports. It is good for them!!! Sounds like you think you have to hold on tight in order to keep his love. Well, if that is the case, you don't have his love anyway.

Now, if you have children together, that's a different case. A good father wants to spend time with his family. But even then, people need friends and some activities without the family.

Sounds like you need to strengthen your skills and confidence. Read some books!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Just sit down and talk to him let him know how you feel and that he came back to save the relationship and that's the least he can do he can hang out with his friends but spend sometime with you too.

Answer 4

properly you're able to tell heam the way you fill obout the spending extra time with heas frend then you and you bolt shoud make a litil scadual to do! And if he no longer lisining you dean he doise unlike you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!