well my girl is 17 and im 19 she is pregnat and she broke up with me last night she told me im to inmature and that some things i do anoy her she is a very hard to please girl thats one of the things that made me starting loving her she says i never talk about the baby when i do but some of the questions she tells me to ask i would never think of and i need to show her that i am mature i have a 40+ hour a week job making good money she tells me that im not fit to raise her baby when its both of ours how can i win her heart back cause i know she still loves me
2006-12-12 23:06:10 · 11 answers · asked by brian r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love each other and want to be together, you both will have to make some compromises.
You need to understand that a woman goes through a torrid time physically and emotionally during pregnancy. Your girlfriend needs you to be around so she can feel secure.
Sit down and talk things through. It is normal for a man and woman to not understand each other sometimes. Men are from Mars and women are from Venus, remember?!! :)
Find out what exactly she wants you to do to make her feel better and get around to doing it!
2006-12-12 23:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by happyblooom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Brian; If she doesn't want to get back together with you, accept it and move on. Let her know that you will be there for your child. You are a father now and your responsiblities have changed.
Its good you have a good job because not too many young men in your situation don't. What you need to do as a young man is work on improving yourself to be a better man and a father to your child.
If it was a relationship that was toxic, don't get back together with her. Your concern right now should be is taking care of yourself,your child, and becoming a good father. Do that for yourself and a chance to heal from the breakup.
Right now, you need to start preparing for caring for your child after he or she is born. Go to various fatherhood groups, read library books on Fatherhood, and people you know who have been in your situation. There are those who are willing to help you if you ask. Good luck.
2006-12-13 00:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by mcneill_35 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You got a 17 year old pregnant, she is right you are very immature, and she is much to young to be a Mother, ever hear of protection??You may need to wait till you grow up before finding another relationship, Keep getting girl's pregnant and you won't have any kind of life as you will be paying child support the rest of you life. Grow up!
2006-12-12 23:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-05 06:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you go to her and say youre sorry, give her a warm secure hug and tell her how much she means to you, and ho wmuch your baby ,means to you, tell her about your love towards her an dher speciality, and if you can propose to her,ask for her hand, go on your knees:) it would make her very happy, and dont just say these words prove to her that you can raise your child, iam sure she would understand, she is a mother now, mothers have more of a sensitive and tender feeling, tell her what you you feel iam sure she would understand, sometimes even the simplest thigns would satisy a hard to please girl, take car enow and i am sure you cab eb a very lovign carign father,
2006-12-12 23:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by Rivern 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
shes upset considering her health status as pregnant.especially at her age.your both young.and because you are the man,you should be able to be the first one to be mature enough in handling your situation.if you love her and also the baby try to understand,and be more patient with her.just show and prove not only to her but to the family as well that you are responsible enough to handle the situation.
2006-12-12 23:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by pinkfairy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hm,m it's possibly just fits and raging hormones,u know the whole pregnant thing but i think u need to give her some space and she will call,like maybe aweeek r so,send her something but DO NOT LOOK DeSPREATE plzzz,big no no .justr giv her some time,she'll b bac
2006-12-12 23:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by 321 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow. Worlds longest run-on sentence. All those misspellings. No wonder you annoy her.
Here's a tip: IGNORE HER. GIVE HER SPACE. She will come back.
Relax dude.
:)
2006-12-12 23:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Boodie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flowers and smile and apology and words from heart
2006-12-12 23:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go back to her , tell her you love her , and take every chance u can to please her . love what matters
2006-12-12 23:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋